Pediatricians HELP ME!

[EducateMEplease]

I had an extremely difficult divorce that I was in hiding for a few years. My son and I were in an abusive relationship. He just turned 4. He has not had any immunizations, since he was 2 months. I recently took him to the doctor. After she scolded me, like I’m some religious fanatic that don’t believe in immunizations or some unfit parent. (I am just trying to do what’s best.) I have read and researched that loading up and giving him a huge dose of immunizations at one time could have a counter affect. The doctors suggested 6 immunizations and repeat every month, until he is caught up. IS THIS SAFE?

[BSG80]

In my non-professional oppionion, instead of scolding you not having your son vaccinated, she should have commended you for making a positive life change and for finding the strength to escape an abusive relationship.

[margypops]

I also am an advocate for children to have their  vaccinations however I do not think they should be given in a batch, ask for them to be spaced out. The Pediatrician should not have spoken to you that way it  makes for more anxiety amongst parents who are only wanting the best for their child, stand up for your self should it happen again , with so many scare stories its not surprising you have hesitated .Do some research on the pro's and con's about it ..then you will feel comfortable having made the best decision .Good luck  

[adgal]

I guess it depends on your perspective.  Personally, I am an advocate of immunization as I am more afraid of what they can get by not having them.  My son has had all his vaccines...I didn't stagger them or give single doses or anything. He is 14 months and has had no ill effects from this.  

I know many moms who choose to have them seperated a bit, or to only give one at a time with time in between.  I also know a few who have not vaccinated at all.

Based on what I know (and I am NOT a medical profession, just someone who has read a fair amount on the subject), there is no scientific evidence that having multiple vaccines at once has any ill effect.

You need to do what you think is best.  This is your child, not the Pediatricians.  If you are not comfortable with her, seek out someone who will work with you.  Discuss the options if you are not comfortable giving so many at once.  In my mind (again, this is me personally) I think it's better to space them out then not give them at all.  We are seeing recurrences of diseases previously wiped out due to many not giving vaccines.  So I do think they are important to have.  However, how you choose to do it is up to you.

I think your Pediatrician is wrong to make you feel badly. Her job is to educate you on your choices so that you can make an informed decision that is best for your child.

I also want to add...I am so very sorry for what you and your son have endured.  I am glad you were able to get out and wish you success in building a new life for the two of you.