I feel you about the facial hair, i actually wax but that means letting it get to a certain length and that frustrates me so i end up tweezing... as for your hair maybe you need to do a deep treatment, when my hair was breaking and dry I did a cucumber treatment at my hairdresser and that was about 2 years ago and i haven't had that problem again... my hair is processed as well but very thick and long... check a good hairdresser that deals with your type of hair... good luck
i dont know but i can make you have a head full of hair in no time