Having PCOS is traumatic for any woman, and yes, there are very serious mood swings, i would suggest, instead of expecting your hubby to look it up, try and involve him, let him know the things you find out, send him e-mail, like look what i found, and talk to him about how he feels. It may be traumatic for him too.
Pcos, thankfully can be managed, with adequate medication and professional help but you have to stick with it though, cos it doesnt go away, and concieving with pcos takes a bit of work for some women.
If you want to see a councillor, thats a step in the right direction, but in immediate terms, try not to feel overwhelmed by what you read about pcos, trust me, i know.
Bottom line is, you have been diagnosed, and you are on medication and with God all things are possible. All the best. xx
Thank you I completly agree. He doesn't want to go to counseling with me he says we don't need it but Obviously I do!
I guess I'd talk to a counselor. Medical issues (like dealing with PCOS) get so much harder when trying to conceive, since the hormones run wild. Maybe you're asking too much of your husband and maybe you aren't, a dispassionate counselor would be helpful to you in working it all out.