I have had the same problems since I was 14, and I have always been overweight, the doc didnt tell me that POCS was the problem until I was trying to get pregnat, then they began to work with me, I dont have a period unless they force me to so I know how you feel, but my advice is to look up a fertility doc and ask them for a doc that would help you. They know all the good ones, lol Keep your head up though.
Hi I am 17 and I have PCOS. I had my first period when 9 and from there I never had it every month. I had my last one when I was 12. I always refused to go to the doctors until last year. They send me to a specalist on hormons and they put me on medication. I havent had a period yet but I am supose to have one soon. I am also overweight and I have this dark patch behind my neck. its common to have PCOS anyone could have it and it wont go away. I suggest that you eat a health diet and exercise because the overweight also has to do with it. The medication I am on has help me lose weight but I have to drink it for the rest of my life.
sounds to me like it could likely be PCOS but a doctor needs to confirm. Is the doctor you have gone to a GYN or just a regular primary care? I would suggest going to a GYN or even a specialist. At this point it would be wise to find out the underlying issues, get yourself regulated if possible and see what they can do to help some of your other symptoms.
good luck!