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Conception date help!

I need help!

I recently found out that I'm pregnant.
My boyfriend is in the military and a few days before I went to visit him, we had a fight and broke up. During that time period I had sex with another guy. This guy wore a condom and I'm 99 percent positive it didn't break.

Long story short, I got back together with my boyfriend and two days later went to go visit him. I was down there for ten days, and everyday we had unprotected sex where he didn't pull out.
So here is the chronology so far:

May 19th - Protected sex with a guy
May 21st-31st - Unprotected sex with boyfriend

The estimated conception date I was given when I got an ultrasound was the 25th or 26th of May.
I'm just worried that this could be the other guys child, and that would be terrible.
Could anyone help me out on what to do? Or how accurate ultrasound conception dates are?

Thank you so much!!
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I wasn't smart either! I may have had the guy wear protection, but sleeping with him was the worst mistake of my life and I would do ANYTHING to take it back.

Getting pregnant if you're wearing a condom that doesn't break, is that likely?
I mean, I know the estimated conception date was a week after I had sex with the guy, so I just need to know the likelihood of this...

Basically - I need reassurance! haha
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Im in the same boat as you guys too.. I made a post about mine as well... I even invested over 40 bucks in a "Psychic Adviser" in hope of having an answer.. I got 2 different ones- No help there... I wasnt smart enough either... I know the feeling all too well... :(
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979453 tn?1248387551
reading this helped me alot. am in a similar situation. and trust me i know the CRAZY feeling.
its jus sad that i wasnt as smart as you!!

congrats.  
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210400 tn?1325380570
They are usually really accurate, I believe my OB said the most an ultrasound can be off is 2-3 days. Congrats.
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I just didn't know how accurate estimated conception dates were. I'm pretty sure too but I still have that thought burried in the back of my head that is driving me absolutely CRAZY! haha

I mean, the estimated conception date was a week after I had sex with this other guy, so I was just wondering if anyone knew how accurate those estimates were?

Thanks again!
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if you were using a condom am pretty sure its your bf baby. congrats!
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