Just curious

[WildRose32]

Ok I just found out june 25th I was pregent an today was first doc app..i found out am 23wks..i have three kids already..am just barley over the shoock am pregent again since my youngest is almost 8..my other kids are all 2yrs apart..but with this one I just dont seem very excited like I was with my other is that wrong

[WildRose32]

Thank u also much

[mom2b819]

I agree ^^ its an advantage to have older children because they can help u out more and it won't be as bad if u had all little ones.. im sure ur oldest would love to help u.. try not to stress and thank of all the positives

[sorenr]

I had a 2yr gap between my first 2 and I have a 5 1/2yr gap this time, part of me is dreading going back to the beginning again, but part of me is very excited about having the chance to do it all again, without making some of the mistakes I made before as a young, scared mum. You will feel better when you get over the shock, sometimes its hard, but you have to try to look at the positives, your kids will all be able to help you, in just a few years your older kids will be able to help babysit....there are lots more up sides to it, those are just the ones I choose to focus on!

[WildRose32]

Thanks..i feel alot better being able to talk to sumone..longg story short am in a 5 yr divorce custody battle rite now..an the babys dad is lookin at a 5 yr jail stay..so am all alone an stressed to the max

[mom2b819]

Oh okk I was 15 weeks when I found out because I was taking bc too lol but ur already half way there and u can find out the gender already... how exciting... congrats

[ashdensmommy]

:)i think you wilk be fine. &  my fiances mom was pregnant with her third child and never knew until i think she was 20 weeks or so. She had been taking birth control the whole time and everything and never once had any other signs with my first pregnancy i didnt know until 12 weeks but with this one i knew before i even got a positive test.

[WildRose32]

Yes I just found out I had no signs nothing..an after radation treatment in  07 my cycle has  been so unnormal I didnt have a clue..

[WildRose32]

Thanks...i hope so cuz itt kindof scares me that am not more excited

[mom2b819]

U just found out ur preggo and ur 23 weeks??

[ashdensmommy]

My fiance also has other children, he was very excited when he found out about them but with this pregnancy he still seems bothered? I think it is because of the shock. We didnt expect this pregnancy and he is finally having his daughter! Just like you didnt expect this pregnancy, im sure in time you will be fine. And when he finally sees that our daughter is here in september, he will be fine also :)