Where is AF? ):

[merrmerr]

Hey I've posted before but nearly two weeks ago my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex for about 10 seconds and he didn't ejaculate inside me and we wiped it dry and squeezed out any existing pre-ejaculation before he proceeded. On the same day while we were fooling around he had accidentaly ejaculated on my stomach and some when on my panties but I quickly wiped down thoroughly. Ok when this happened I was about three days late for my period . . and when it seemed my period wasn't guna show, I took a pregnancy test at a clinic and it was negative (this was when I was 6 days  late so 3 days post possible exposure) it came out negative. now I'm TWO weeks late and basically thinking WHAT the hell is going on!! my periods aren't very regular I admit they are always quite late . . Maybe a week late at most . . But neverr this late. I've only ever been this late ONCE and that was back in Jan. Help I'm totally confused and stressing out and worried! I have no symptoms of pregnancy : no nausea, no spotting, no headaches (unless after I study), no breast soreness and no unual tiredness. I mean I get tired but that's cos I'm pretty busy most times! So what is going on?? I've got exams at the moment which have been stressing me out a lil bit but should that really affect it?? or could I just be pregnant?? please help and give me advice?? . . additional information : my last period was April 14th and just before that I took the emergency contraceptive pill which made that period come earlier than it was really supposed to. could that have messed up my cycle??

[Clysta]

Stress is one of the top reasons periods can be delayed. Sometimes our bodies just skip anyways. There's nothing that says you HAVE to have a period every single month. Other things that can delay a period are weight gain/loss, medications, exercise, hormonal imbalance, eating habits, extended illness...etc. If you don't want to be pregnant, you should consider birth control and/or condoms. 10 seconds is more than enough time to get pregnant. While some people complain that they hate condoms or birth control, they're a hell of a lot better than being pregnant and having a baby that you're unprepared for.

[mommyagain123]

I think your excessive stress both from tests, school, and stressing about being pregnant is what is causing your cycle to be so delayed.  It is highly unlikely that you are pregnant

[merrmerr]

Ahh thankyou. I have been stressed cos of exams and been worried about this like crazy for the past week! Do you think that's delaying it?? I hope I'm not pregnant . . I doubt I am considering there was no ejaculation near my vagina. I mean I KNOW there is still a chance that I could be, but i'd be really unlucky lol. I guess I have to just get a test and wait. Thanks though! I'll keep you updated

[ConnieG]

It seems like you aren't pregnant.
In order to get pregnant you have to have sperm meet your egg when you ovulate.  Usually you ovulate about 14 days before your period.  You were already 3 days late for your period so that means you ovulated probably 17 days ago, there is no way to get pregnant that way.
I would say, unless you has sex around 4 weeks ago you probably aren't pregnant.
Let's say you did ovulate when you fooled around 2 weeks ago.  Then it would take about a week (I think 5-10 days) for the egg to implant.  Usually it takes another week after that to be able to get a positive preg test.  So therefore if you took a test 3 days after you fooled around and actually did indeed get pregnant from that it was too soon for a test to tell.
If you took a test now it aught to be accurate...
I'm still sticking with not pregnant though.....
Are you stressed, changed your diet, changed your exercise routine, the emergency contraceptive pill could effect it too.  There are so many things that can cause a late period.
If you want, take another test, but I would bet it will be negative.
Just relax, take a bath and wait for your period to come.

[Clysta]

It's possible you've stressed yourself out enough that it's delaying your periods. Emergency contraceptives are known to mess cycles up, which is why you're only supposed to use them sparingly. (Not to mention they're horrible for your body) Personally I think it sounds like stress, along with irregular periods has caused them to be this way. If you want, you can try another pregnancy test. Take it with first morning urine and see what that shows. If it's negative, just try not to think about it and go on with everything. If you relax your periods may come. If they don't this month, make an appointment to see your doctor and get blood work done. That will give you a definite answer.

[merrmerr]

Any help??