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7585726 tn?1397871765

problems!!!

So yall think yall have HORRIBLE boyfriend problems. Am currently 18weeks 3days & my bby dad has another girl pregnant if even a month behind me & he's also still in a relationship with his 6yr old son mother. But I have yet for any of that to destroy me. I am inlove with him so am slowly trying to get out of this circle I jus gt wat I can & live my life for me & my child cuz I believe that special guy for me will come around. Sad thing is all 3 of us knows about each other. A bunch of mix up mix up. I REALLY DONT KNOW!!!
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keep your head up ladies! Stay strong and do you. Those dogs come a dime a dozen. Let the them females have them if they want. Theyre are some good loyal dudes out there but they probably aren't on the prowl like dogs.
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7986870 tn?1401635716
Girl we are kind of in the same situation, lol. My baby daddy cheated on me with his 1st baby momma and they are still together. She lives with him and everything.
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7420616 tn?1401158804
You are welcome :) And that's good :) you are a strong woman and it takes alot not to want to get involved in the craziness. I hope he smartens up and takes responsibility for you and ur baby
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7585726 tn?1397871765
@1st_time...the one who prego & the one who has the 6yr old is at it & if they see each other an sure its on.  But thanks for the encouragment & am not stressing at ALL . Its not worth my child's life. Also thank you @nina159  @gigi & @stevie I hope your coping as well as I am
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I'm pretty much in the same boat!
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You love him but he doesn't love or respect you. The best thing you can do is focus on yourself and baby. Keep itcordial and figure out how to co-parent. But stop dealing with physically/emitionally him bc its nothing but drama. You need to set boundaries. Hope u have a good support system
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7420616 tn?1401158804
Holy cow! I hope you are doing okay! That sounds like too much stress and I hope things work out for the best. Stay strong and maybe he will grow up, maybe not but do what is best for u and your baby!!! Unfortunately I used to know alot of guys like that and they were way too much drama in my opinion and I stay far away!!!! I think their baby mamas were more dramatic though and fought each other and it makes no sense when technically their kids were related through the dad...sad but its the realitt for alot of women. Stay strong though!!! Sending Hugs!!!
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2170635 tn?1357911686
That is harsh what an a hole gosh I'm sorry I'm glad u staying strong :) keep it up u don't need that at all
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7585726 tn?1397871765
Bama*
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7585726 tn?1397871765
2 yrs & @Baby_mama  miss you could'VE KEPT your comment. Thank you
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Avatar universal
Wow what a douch* bag ..  
I couldn't imagine, how long were you two together for?
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7140159 tn?1396530233
You could all just marry him,  move in together and be Sister Wives :)
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7585726 tn?1397871765
After both of us being pregnant ppl started tlkn. Ya kno ppl kno ppl n eventually I found out. I would say sso
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Holy sH**
That's really rough ... How did he get all of you's pregnant if you don't mind me asking?
He was hooking up with all of you's @ the same time & you guys never knew?
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