29 weeks and boyfriend gets mad when I don't want sex

[jaleelsmommy]

This has been going on for about 3 months I'm just so big and tired all the time and he's always wanting sex I tried talking to him but he just doesn't get I just don't get turned on anymore he has tried just about every thing but nothing helps I love him truly but I can't force myself to have sex with him I'll feel bad about it is there anything I can do so he can get off  he jacks off but said he rather have sex but I just can't force myself

[Sammyjay18]

My sex drive has had its ups and downs with this pregnancy. Lately its been so hard for me to "enjoy/finish" but I do like to make my man feel good. So if I can perform I will and enjoy what I can... the other half..oral. cant go wrong.. (for him) and I enjoy doing it as well as he enjoys recieving it. Take a little time to make him feel special.

[padfoot21]

I don't know about anyone else but I had the opposite reaction with both pregnancies so far. After 2 1/2 months my libido shuts down and takes a vacation the rest of the pregnancy. I'm not always just tired and uncomfortable, I don't feel like having sex b/c I don't get any "fireworks" at the end. Still feels great and I can get in the mood, but I just can't get off. I was so afraid with my first baby that it would never come back!

[jamie2464]

Give him a hand job and talk dirty to him.or oral.tease him so he can feel special then give him the best hand job or oral.so he wont bother u for the next few days

[mommyof3Ts]

Glad I'm not alone! To make matters worse my bf says he heard that during pregnancy women are supposed to be hornier... sorry for him really but I could care less! Wish he could feel half of what I do and see if he wants it!

[ashleybean1]

I feel the same way. Im 34 weeks now. You cant feel bad. I know its hard. My boyfriend says he understands but i see it in his face. Have your boyfriend give you a massage. It helps us both :) it relaxes me and gets him in the mood. Sex doesnt last long and im perfectly ok with it. We used to do it lots but more like once a week or two now.  It is hard. We try to spend time together and talk. Touch each other. Just be honest. Youre not alone. Baby will make it all worth it. Not all of us preggos want sex all the time. Its ok :)

[thorarb]

Oral? Sometimes im not really in the mood or am just tired I feel your pain. But I still try to go on with it. At first I feel like I really would just rather go to sleep but eventually I get turned on