Everyone is different .... Something what is not important to one person maybe extremely important to you... My family lives in another country so is my partners... So we just have each other and we are happy :)
Ive told my mum id rather her not come until baby is born, bathed n dressed lol shes crap with blood etc so was very happy that i didnt want her in the room. She gave me a big speech on how it should be just me and my bf with it being our first child.... she was so happy when i laughed and told her i didnt want her with me....
Im sure ur dad probably assumed the same, that u wouldnt want him there til after and men, no matter how many children they have, dont realise that u can give birth at any point after 37 weeks (my mum n dad have 4 kids n i had to explain to dad that just cos her due date is 4th jan doesnt mean she will come then)
thanks for reply. lols noooo defo dnt want him at birth but i suppose am jst a bit upset that he would decide to go away around the time i am due. ps we r due around the same date :-)
ur rite all i need is my hubby and bub :-)
Bear I mind some dads don't like seeing there little baby's going through pain and my dad would be there but he wouldn't want to see his baby going through contractions and child birth so I can see your point and I can see why he did it so its a hard situation love xxx
I say its a sign first things to comes. I wouldnt get my hopes up for anything with him, therfore there are less emotions and stress for u and the baby. If he steps it up itll be a pleasant surprise. let him show u who he is and believe him. I had to learn that with my father. Hopes that helps