emotional

[sammiSteve]

I have 43 days left... And I feel like my world is falling apart I'm a ftm 28 and my mother hates my boyfriend/ babies father. Her an my friends are suppose to be throwing me a baby shower at the end of the month, an now she wants nothing to do with, me an my bf are having a hard time cuz money is tight. My hole family is siding with my mother and she told me I have to choose here or my bf. I don't want to have my shower now and I'm so sad for my little baby girl cuz I'm so stressed and can't seem to not think of every thing going on and I don't know what to do....

[Eevee_moon]

If u have a good mam he should always be before your family because you are starting are life with him.  My family doesn't like my husband much.  Why Idk. He is a great dad he cleans and cooks.  It's 50/50 here.  So they should be happy I have such a helpful man.   They have made comments about him being the wife which is ridiculous to me and I don't understand it.  But anyway relax stop worrying about them. Distant yourself and try not to think about it.  Maybe his fam will do a baby shower for u   or maybe u can do it for yourself alot of women do that themselves. I don't see anything wrong with that

[Mom_of_3_2015]

well sammisteve, it is time you put some space between you and your loved ones. your main concern is you and your child above all else. if they can't respect you enough to stay outta your relationship and let you make your own decisions then it's best they stay away. if they love you they will not ask you to choose. they will get over it in time. i hate my sisters SO but it's her life and so because she loves him i respect him. it's just that simple. don't let anyone steal your joy. i am big on family but if they put me in a situation where i have to choose, i choose me. i know things will work themselves out for you hun. life has a way of figuring things out even when we can't. do what you can and leave the rest to god. stop stressing! take care!