For both of my boys my mom stayed with us for a month so I could acclimate. With this one she will be here for a month. I love it. I can get some much needed sleep. My house is spotless. I don't have to worry about cooking. It's wonderful. I wish she was here now to help with my two boys as my husband is out of town for work.
I felt the same way before my son was born but afterwards I was happy to have people around. All those feelings go away after birth and you'll be dying for some interference lik
The added help will be beneficial to both you and your new addition! =) Just take it in small doses so you're not overwhelmed by it all. Set up a schedule of some sort and only have people over at those times. It will still allow you to have your much needed space and bond with baby, and also be around others. Let them help you! If they ask...
Just think about it, people are happy for you and so or if happiness they would just say it.
Take it add blessings for you kids