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Please pray super hard today for baby Lukas (now almost 24 weeks). My own blood karyotype should come back from Genzyme labs--as many of you know I'm praying really hard that somehow I also carry the supernumerary chromosomes that showed up in my amnio--the likelihood isn't that good, but I'm still holding onto a thread of hope. If not, I will be in the same painful situation of uncertainty, either until they can determine a known disorder from Lukas abnormal DNA or decide it's a de novo event (new) which will mean waiting until Lukas is born. De novo is the better option  in my mind since I can always pray that it isn't as horrible as what some of the diagnosed anomalies mean for Lukas and us. I don't know if they'll have me come in or just tell me over the phone. Probably depends on how bad the news is and if they think I'll have a breakdown.

I really need some good news tomorrow or I might be asking for meds (seriously). I still have to somehow tell my 4 year old, I can't even face telling him he has a baby brother on the way... it hurts to even think about it.

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437027 tn?1670266352
We are all still praying for you and Lukas. Please let us know when you have any news.
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296076 tn?1371334474
I hope she comes back so we can support her... I know it must be hard when you see others have healthy babies... we are praying for her!
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161782 tn?1201217932
Thanks for the update.  We have all been worried.

Do you know if she got her blood test results back?

Please let her know we are here for her.
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380530 tn?1239162538
I've been in communication with Sleepless_Mom, and just want to let you all know that nothing has really changed.  She and baby Lukas still need our prayers.  I don't think she'll mind me letting you know.  I know what it feels like to worry and not hear any news so I wanted to let you know.

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166219 tn?1267487238
how ar you???
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296076 tn?1371334474
bump... now I am worried it can't be good... :(  (tear)
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296076 tn?1371334474
bump
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296076 tn?1371334474
I hope you post soon we are all worried...
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166219 tn?1267487238
just wanted to see how you were doing.  You and baby Lucas are in my thoughts and prayers
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281219 tn?1219114914
I've been praying for you, too!! Hoping you're doing okay!!!
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296076 tn?1371334474
bump... are you ok???
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161782 tn?1201217932
I've been thinking and praying for you and your family as well.  
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296076 tn?1371334474
did you get the results?  I am worried about you..
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159047 tn?1213896873
I'm so sorry for what you're going through.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and Lukas.
Melanie
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254689 tn?1251180040
You, baby Lukas and your family have constantly been in my thoughts and prayers.  It sounds like you have the top experts in the field working on this.  I'm praying for a miracle.  You are a very courageous person!!! - jennifer
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237300 tn?1231454718
I will pray for you.  I'm not sure of your situation...but I will keep you in my prayers!
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380530 tn?1239162538
Hi Sleepless,  You know I am and have been praying for you.   You and Lukas are in my thoughts and prayers daily.  I really am so amazed at your strength and courage.  Keep us posted.  

Lisa
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296076 tn?1371334474
prayers are with you!! and your son
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294043 tn?1354207946
I hope the news is good for both you and Lukas.
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333535 tn?1227018609
Your in my thoughts and prayers!!!! God Bless you!!!!!!!
Sheri
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Genzyme is one of the best and most advanced genetic labs nationally. Every high risk perinatologist ( and I've spoken with many) said if they can't find it no can. There sadly is no question that the anomaly is there since it is in every meiotic cell of my baby (this is not a blood test, they are working at the DNA level with Lukas' cells) is affected. The prayer is that somehow it is non-coding DNA. Thank you all for your support and prayers. I'm a mess and it's been really difficult not to agree with the "experts" to terminate. But I know what comes of baby Lukas' life is up to God not me.
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208686 tn?1293030503
I will be praying for you and Lil Lukas!! Hopefully they will tell you some good news that you deserve to hear!!

((Hugs))
Patty
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304653 tn?1217001302
yes... I will be the first to tell you.. My lab.. is for the pits.. they had me all wrong with my afp bloodwork...  waa all messed up..due date, they had me african american and Im not. and I never found this out till I went and got my amnio done at a diffrent hospital.. so
anyway... dont just listen to one side...because nylena is right.. get a second look somewhere else befor you take any pills. alls it takes is a simple thing to throw those numbers off.
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202380 tn?1267906966
All my prayers are with you and  little Lukas....I wish everything turns out fine and all this is nothing more than a huge scare...Any possibility of double checking the results,with some other lab?..All my best ,sleepless mom,hang in there!
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