I had my first at 16. And three more since then. Each one gets harder the older i get. Youth may actually be on your side for this one. Your body knows what to do. The pain is temporary if its too bad there are lots of things you can do to help with it. You will be surrounded by people who know what they are doing. Ask lots of questions. Good luck!
Knowing that this is the only way for your child to safely come !