I am so sorry you are going through this!!!!
thank you ladies. i know i am so blessed to have my children, sometimes when id be praying i felt selfish for praying for another healthy child. there are so many wonderful people who are trying to have just one, and here i am w/ 6 praying for another one. but i know, its only natural for a mother to want a happy and healthy child, so i keep telling myself that. (not that it always works) im just taking it day by day, and holding onto hope that it will be fast and easy. (yea right lol no such luck) the emotional healing, well, its weird, but i have a peace about this, as i have been praying for Gods will, and i know that this just wasnt meant to be. i feel His peac w/in me and its vrey comforting. Now if i could only get past being a scaredy cat :0 grrr.... thanks again. gonna go wait for the nurse to call again. shes gonna call after the dr looks at it. i already know the outcome, but shes still gonna call. have a good day ladies!!
I agree with carp, you need to do what is most comfortable for you. And honestly, don't worry about the hemoragging, its not all sudden like that. If it even happened, you have lots of time to get medical attention. Take good care of yourself and please keep in touch.
Im sorry to hear of your loss. If you are more comfortable passing it naturally...I say do it. Ive had 2 m/c and I passed one naturally and the other d&c. I hate to say it but even w/insurance I was out $900 on the d&c. So passing it naturally had a cost savings to it. :-( However you are so blessed to have 6 kids....amazing. I am 16wks w/my first time being this far along. I pray if you want more children that they are healthy and strong. Take care....