is she pregnant or not?? please someone answer

[tank7562]

ok so here it goes..
i've been dating this girl for 3 three months now things are going great she gets her period regular every month.. but we have sex about once a week when we see each other i have never ejaculated in her. i've always pulled out. i make sure i pee before sex as well. but this month she has missed her period she is about 6 days late on her period..she has taken two pregnancy tests already both spread out from each other at least one day in between tests..she also has had a miscarriage before as well...she says she has all the signs/ and symptoms of being pregnant but everytime she takes one of those early detections test that say the can detect low amounts of that hormone..its coming up negative.. she also doesnt feel these symptoms throughtout the day they just come and go.... but she feels that she is pregnant...she works two part time jobs and goes to school full time and now juggling a relationship...i recently had a talk with her and she says that she wants a baby sooner than later and want to get married sooner than later sooo...my questions are do u think her mind could be projecting these symptoms and she believes shes pregnant? orr  do u think she could be under alot of stress with school, work, and a relationship that could cause her to miss her period? or do you think that she really could be pregnant?

[ChristineMP]

Your relationship is in a really early stage for her to be talking about marriage and babies in anything but a general, future sense :)  I agree with adgal, get and use condoms and have a real heart to heart serious talk with this girl about your relationship.

As far as is she or isn't she. I've never personally gotten a false result from a home pregnancy test. I have seen women who focus on the possibility of being pregnant so strongly that they induce all sorts of symptoms...my son's girlfriend was CONVINCED she was pregnant...she had all the symptoms-morning sickness, no period, sore breasts, growing girth...blood test showed NO hCG...so no pregnancy...but she was SURE until she got the blood test results (and they always used a condom)

Have her visit a doctor...and have a serious talk with her :)

[exspecting_2]

OK i took 5 at home tests and all said negative. When i went to the Dr i was positive that's one thing don't check so close to the missed period and try clear blue have her pee in a cup and dip the stick that's the only at home test i came back positive and im due to have my second child so i do agree be honest if your ready for a baby and to settle down. My first child's father said he did and when i found out i was pregnant he ditched and is stuck paying child support which he's getting in trouble for because he's not paying hope that helps

[adgal]

Well, if she is using the home pregnancy tests according to directions, and they are coming up negative, chances are that she is not pregnant.  However, with a missed period she should probably see her Dr. for blood work to be certain.  Symptoms don't really mean much of anything as there are other things that can cause the same symptoms such as stress or a host of other things.  But still, a trip to the Dr. is warranted.

That being said, if you are not ready to be a dad, I wouldn't rely on the pull out method.  Kinda like playing Russian Roulette.  It is not effective and whether or not you pee before hand has nothing to do with it.  I'm not sure why you think that's important?  Sperm isn't found in urine.  You need to discuss and use a more effective form of birth control.  Double up by using a condom so that you are taking responsibility as well for not putting yourself in that position.  You two also need to be honest with each other as to when you want a family.  

Good luck to you.