Could i be pregnant

[cantblveit]

i have a 28 day cycle.  I had intercourse on the 12 the 17 18 20 of October.November 1 was last period. On november 12 i started to feel like af as coming by Nov.14 i started spotting pink and brown very little. Thought my cycles were changing. My boyfriend thought mabey my period would come down if we had sex so on Novemeber 20 we tried still no period.  November 26 I had one pink spot which was a coulple of days before my next Af was due which would have been November 28. December 15 i started to spot again. Then january 7 i started to spot. With the spotting theres no pain or crampng, It seems to go away when i hydrate myself. Could i be pregnant? i have taken pg test that came back neg.  i dont know what to do?

[cantblveit]

i didnt take offense. im a little moody but i read what i wrote and i didnt see a reason for your reply cause i wasnt asking for a diagnosis. maybe a lil guidance may a similliar story make provide comfort while i wait. just because a woman puts her story on here doesnt mean we are actually looking to be diagnosed by anyone here. its just to hear familliar stories, just because someone has a similar story doesnt mean it will always apply to ourselves. but its nice to know that some one may have went through what u have. and it cand be calming. it can sometimes lessen the worrying. For instance Renny she shared her story and gave me input. i appreciated that and what u had to say iwas just clearing up that i wasnt asking if i was pregnant.

[cantblveit]

thank you for your reply. thank you for sharing your story. and i will take a pg test again. No i havent had a period since november. I only have spotting. i am wondering is the spotting the reson why i have gotten a negative.. with my daughter i didnt know til 15 wks. so ill see if can convince my ob to give me an ultra sound.

[adgal]

I am sorry you seem to have taken offense at my answer.  I was trying to help.  There is no possible way to even guess if you might be pregnant.  You cannot rely on symptoms, spotting, or anything else to give you an indicator as often signs of impending period can be mistaken as early pregnancy signs.  So the only other thing I can say is that anytime you have unprotected sex, you can possibly be pregnant.  Sorry if that is not the answer you are looking for, but it is the only possible answer to give.  Yes, if you suspect, or think there may be another medical issue, it is never a bad idea to see your Dr.

[renny320]

Everybody's experience in early pregnancy is different. Some have spotting, some don't. Some have other symptoms and some have none at all. Yes it is possible that you could be pregnant. Have you only had spotting and no real af since November? If that is the case, I would recommend going to your doctor to find out if you are pregnant. When I was pregnant with my son I spotted a lot the first month to the extent that I wasn't sure whether I just had a light af or if I was pregnant. I went to the doctor for a blood test and was pregnant. You could try another hpt test in case the other was a false negative, but if that is negative and you still think you might be pregnant and haven't had a real af since before November, the doctor will be the only one who can give you a definite answer and peace of mind.

[cantblveit]

thank you for your reply i didnt ask if anyone could tell me if i was pregnant. I asked could i be pregnant and there is a difference. Now cold you enlighten me with your experience with pregnancy? does it sound to u like i could be and may be i shoud see a doctor. Thats what i am looking forward to hearing

[adgal]

Unfortunately no one can tell you if you are pregnant or not.  Wait a week, and if no AF, try another hpt.  Or, see your Dr. for a bloodtest.  Good luck to you.