I wish there was something besides wait and see. Unfortunately at this point that is all you can do. It's sheer torture, I know. I too have been there. Sadly, you cannot go by pregnancy symptoms. It is true that they sometimes diminish or disappear with a loss, but that is certainly not always the case. Sometimes it takes our bodies a bit of time to realize what has happened. The opposite is also true...pregnancy symptoms can disappear and the pregnancy still be just fine.
I hope the waiting is over for you soon and you have your answers. I also hope that this pregnancy turns out to be a healthy one and am sending you all the positive thoughts I can. Take care, and please let us know how you are doing.
Best wishes to you. It's hard for us to help you since you are unsure of the last period. I guess you will have to wait for HCG. I am sorry you are going thru this stress.
I don't know how far along I am because I thought I got my period the first week of December but it turn out that I might have gotten the third week of December because I write in a journal and it was later then that but on January 14th they just found a sac and then 2 weeks later February 2, 2010 the told me that it grew there was a fetus in there but no heartbeat but I am still having pregnancy symptoms that didn't diminish so I don't know what to think and I am still waiting for my test results from the HCG they told me that they haven't gotten them yet but I am just so tire of this waiting game.
How far along are you? Could it still be too early for the heartbeat?