Oh, im sorry about the cs problems. I can only imagine what u r going through. I have a 2 year old but i never had a cs but i did get my tubies tied and that little insicion hurts so i can only imagine a bigger one and what u discribed. And i think that i would probably be sobbing or really scared. I hope everything goes well at the mayo clinic. If you need anyone to talk to im here for u. keep us posted. :-)
Oh, Jessica I am so sorry to hear about your incision and all the problems, I cant even imagine what you must be going though and then to have to chase a two year old around!
I have not been through what you describe, but I do have a 3 1/2 year old and she was born cs and that alone was very difficult for me because I had no help,(DH was working,)
I am hoping your surgery goes well at the mayo clinic and I wish you the best of luck,
Lisa