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Boyfriend might be cheating plz help!!!
I was looking through my boyfriends email and deleting them when i saw an email from a site called fuckbook and in his description he put that he hadnt had sex in a while and he was looking to hook up with somebody...i am currently 31 weeks pregnant with his child amd i just dont know what to do if i confront him he will just deny it....i am never in the mood to have sex and yes i feel bad i just dont know what to do plz help i need some advice!!
My boyfriend did the same thing. Guys really think with the brain in their pants rather than the one in there had. My bf started out the same way just looking at porn and then these sites which really hurt me and disgusted me but I didn't leave him because he never called out with it. We have been together for 3 years and by now he has cheated on my once that I know of but I'm sure there is more. We are not together now and I'm pregnant with his second. I would tell him to go to counseling with you so you guys can get through this if you want. , if he is not willing then I would leave him as hard as it is it just gets easier for guys to cheat after a while. Think hard. Do you want this example for your child?
I use to have a hotmail address and I would get all sorts of crazy messages from a sex site. You would think these were personal emails but there actually fake.. on the othr hand you have to face the possibility that it could be true but how can you know? You cant really accuse either. Theres only so much a woman can bear and this has to be the worst time to do such a horrible dirty act. I believe what you sow, sow shall you reap. The cheater and user always tastes their own medicine in the end. Ive been through my own battles in my relationship. I know this might be the last thing on your mind right now but go get checked out
Leave him girly because if he even thought about making that for the reason of hooking up he's clearly th
Shortimama, just because you're okay with porn doesn't mean she has to be. If she doesn't like him looking at it then it isn't right. I personally don't care for porn and I don't care if my significant other is looking at it or not.
Anywhoo.. ColtonRyan, I think you should screen shot everything or print it out, confront him, and then make a decision whether to leave him or not.
Anywhoo.. ColtonRyan, I think you should screen shot everything or print it out, confront him, and then make a decision whether to leave him or not.
He can't deny it. You have proof. Show him and tell him you're not stupid. Tell him he needs to man up and take this seriously. You're not just some girl he's dating anymore. You're the mother of his child and he needs to cut that s*** out and grow a pair and learn how respect you. Now he got you pregnant and you're stuck, not with him, but with what he's left you with. It is hard, but you can't let him think he can just get away with it. DONT let it slide, that's when they try to sneak around and do other things cause they know you'll just get upset, forgive them and not do anything about it. You can leave, not neccessarily forever, but get your things, get out and MAKE him realize you're m ot going to put up with it. If he doesn't try to get you back, then he doesn't care.. and in that case you can forget him, get him for child support since he doesn't wanna man up and have a real family with you. And he can face his consequences
Hes lied to you before about sites an saying he wernt on porn when you blantely caught him. I don't no id be very para all the time with him and that's the worst thing a relationship can go through is going thew the para stage. Hope you both sort it out x
I never got mad over him masturbating but he tries to hide it like he dosnt want me to know but i told him im ok with him doing it...and just bc you get spam emails dosnt mean anything this email led to his profile he had 3 friends and all the girls had slutty pictures of themselvs...i know im stessing and i shouldnt be but i have been with him for almost 5 years...i feel like he dosnt really care about me or our son at first he would talk to my belly and kiss it but he hasnt done that for over 21/2 months now.
Don't cry YOU NEED TO BE STRONG!! tell him that stuff is unexceptable and you are not going to stand for it. You are pregnant with his child he needs to respect you. Tell him he has a choice to make right now about never going on that site again or HE can leave not you. Is he going to leave his family over a porn site nd if he does then good at least you have found out what kind of man he really is one that you don't want raising your child. Let it be clear that YOU DONT NEED HIM your are with him because you want to be and you love him. Stay strong mama.
This is just my opinion. But you shouldn't get mad over porn/masturbation. Men are visual creatures and at least he's just touching him self and not another girl. But as far as the fuckbook profile. That's not acceptable. Even though you know nothing has come of it. You need to make him delete that crap. I hope he opens his eyes and realizes how wrong all that is.
He has been with me 24\7 since then but im just afraid that he might leave me for someone who will have sex with him all the time...he lied to me one time about being on a porn site and said that he dosnt do that but i cought him masturbating and he said he wasnt i just want to curl up in a corner and bawl my eyes out.
I confronted him 30 minutes to an hour after i posted this and he denied the whole thing he said i would never do that your the mother of my son and i said nobody else would do that and use your name your age what city you live in your email address and who would know that we havent had sex in a while and the email was from november 4th....i know he hasnt done anything yet bc he has been with me 24
I would get out he should have respect for you. Your carrying his child. He should also understand that you are pregnant and you arent gonna be in the mood. And you have the right to say no regardless.
Leave the email open on his laptop/computer and leave him. It be hard but what an arse hole! Your both going to be parents and he can't keep it in his pants. He don't have respect for you, that your carrying his child so why be with him? Get out girl! X
Leave him! If I were you, the minute I seen that he had a profile on that site I would have left him. There's only one reason people are on that site
My boyfriend cheated on me I realty wasn't expecting it to happen and he gave me a STD you should get him checked and yourself if he has cheated already and you have no idea. Its normal to not be in the mood you're in your third trimester its getting closer to time for the baby to come. I would talk to him about it.
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