My girlfriend says she is pregnant, i only had sex last week for the first time.

[grantycus12]

Hi, i had sex with my girlfriend about a week ago and she now says she is pregnant, i dont believe her. i went to the doctors with her but didnt go in, i waited in the another room. she said she had jelly put on her stomach and then was scanned. i didnt even think you could get a scan that early. please someone help me.

[JoyRenee]

There's no way she's pregnant with your baby (she could be pregnant, but if you only had sex once, a week ago, it is not yours).

She wouldn't even have a positive pregnancy test by this time anyway.

[kjbutcher]

It sounds like medhelp needs a new forum!  Girls seem to be getting crazier and guys seem to be getting more gulible!

[GRose]

The jelly could have been put on to hear for a heartbeat, the EARLIEST you can hear a heartbeat is at 8 weeks and most dr.s wont even try until 12 weeks.

[jen1226]

Maybe she did not have jelly put on for an ultrasound because that is not done by her regular doctor. You first see the ob doctor who then orders an ultrasound appointment for a later date and it is doen in an ultrasound/xray department, not the regular doctors office. But if you mean she said her regular ob doctor put jelly on belly that is possible- not to do an ultrasound but that is done to listen to the babies heartbeat, but they don't do it until you are 12-13 weeks pregnant because thats the earliest time you can first hear a heartbeat. They might check earlier than that to see if they heard one though if she can't tell them when she last got her period. The question to ask her is did they hear the heartbeat, whether it be by ultrasound or dr's office, if she says yes and is telling the truth then there is no way it is yours from last week since you can't hear a heartbeat until the 12th week of being pregnant and thats how you can bust her. Either you will know she isn't really pregnant or it is someone else's from atleast 12 wks ago. Next time ask to go in to the apt, then tell the dr the date you had sex, they will explain to her that it isn't yours.

[tarrah87]

she would not get an ultrasound on her stomach that early or even know she was pregnant after a week, so if she is pregnant its not yours as stated above.

[spade22]

I agree with the other ladies.  A couple of scenarios:

a) She was already pregnant
b) She is pretending to be pregnant, but might actually be in the very early stages of pregnancy with your child (but it is too soon to know yet) - e.g. her current lie could turn into a truth
c) She is pretending to be pregnant but wont actually get pregnant from your encounter

Best of luck to you.

[heatherlynn22]

the other ladies are right...sounds very fishy. i didn't get my first + till 11 dpo, second 12 dpo and 3rd 16 dpo. i wasn't able to even see the babies till i was 9 weeks. then they were these itty bitty little peanuts.

lance put it beautifully...she's full of sh!t. if she is indeed pregnant.....have a paternity test done once the baby is born. ask her questions!!! lots of questions. ask to see the u/s pictures. ask when the due date is. how far along the ob said she is.

[isthisnormal]

Don't we get weird posts like this every couple of weeks?

[Lance06]

Sounds to me like shes full of sh*t...especially if you only had sex a week ago!

sounds fishy to me..dont let her fool you or play games with your head...get all the facts!

[cure65roses]

nsearchofbaby is right,  they would NOT do an abdominal ultrasound this early.  It would have been a vaginal ultrasound if anything.  Even with a vag. u/s they wouldn't see anything this early.  She's farther along than she's telling you

[cure65roses]

Could it have been more like two weeks ago that you had sex with her?  If so, the pregnancy hormone would just now be showing up in her system.. at a very low level.  I can't imagine that a dr. would do an ultrasound this early,,, they wouldn't be able to see anything.   UNLESS, of course, she's farther along than two weeks.  


Sounds fishy to me,,,

[nsrchofbaby]

I agree with the other two ladies, she's either lying about being pregnant or trying to pass the baby off as yours. A very early pregnancy wouldn't even be detected via transvaginal ultrasound at this point let alone an abdominal ultrasound. Shady shady shady. You need to leave this girl alone and run far away as fast as you can. Sorry you're having to deal with this but don't be fooled into taking responsibility for a child that isn't yours. Good luck.

[GRose]

There is no way she would know already if she was pregnant, if she is pregnant, it isn't yours, sorry :(

[nickieb85]

I agree with pinkbelle. There is no way that the baby would be yours... she is trying to put something on you that is not your responsibility, and there is definitely no way that if she was scanned would they be able to tell anything yet. I am sorry that this is happening to you. Let us know how it works out.

[pinkbelle]

if shes preggo its not yours.. it takes 6-12 days for the egg to implant..  and generally you cant get a +  hpt until 9 or 10 dpo  and the fact that she didnt let you go in with her .. is shady as well