baby shower this weekend !!

[dhill1989]

So I am 36 weeks and 5days with my 4th baby. I will be holding my lilman in 2 weeks. So excited I can't wait I love him so much. On so excited about my shower and can't wait to see everyone. I planned and did my whole shower only because I am a event planner. The count down begins because lord knows I'm ready for him to vacat the belly. This will be my 4th csection a Lil nervous but I will be tying my tubes.

[brychelle]

Yes i would really love to have a girl someday .... but there are no guarantees. ...id time will tell:)

[blessedmommy209]

Everyone makes their own decisions to suit their lifestyles, if a gyn don't want to do that many csections that's on them,I dont c why it should be a problem it's part of their job, my gyn has a patient that's on her 9th csection. As far as changing diapers my oldest is almost 9 but I haven't been changing diapers for a constant 9yrs, she was potty trained for 2yrs before I had my 2nd child and my second child was potty trained for 3 yrs before I had my 3rd and my baby is 2 and only wears a diaper at night, so he should be fully potty trained before I have my 4th,, also changing diappers doesn't last forever babies grow up so fast that to my it's all worth it, ladies I totally understand what you guy's are saying, and everyone knows when they have had enough, good luck to everyone in their decisions.

[Skittles_2_1_15]

See dhill and bby17 you guys are different you got both girls and boys brychelle don't so I understand where you guys are coming from..

[bby_17]

I'm also expecting  my 4th I have a two boys and soon two girls I'm happy  with 4 so in my 4th csection I'm getting  my tubes tied...no more baby's for me ^_^

[dhill1989]

Listen girl I am 25 years old and I am on my 4th and having my 4th csection ok. I am so over it that I'm all for tying the tubes. I feel like its better health wise because no gyn really want to do that many csections. I have 2 girls and soon 2 boys. I am done and shop is being closed I will love for one day to not have to change diapers lol. I have been changing diapers for 8yrs. And I just wanna enjoy my kids and not hear I'm pregnant so prevent it all I am tying and and so EXCITED. BUT EACH ITS OWN I hope all you ladies do what you decide don't let no one make the decision for you.

[brychelle]

Thanks ladies:)... my mom will be seriously mad if i dont and bd claims he will never touch me again haha nice right? But no i feel its to major a decision to make based on how they feel... i cant do it if im not ready i know ill regret it

[Skittles_2_1_15]

Don't get your tubes tied brychelle you have 3 boys no girls.. you need that girl first...

[blessedmommy209]

Brychelle, I am 26yrs old and pregnant with baby #4 it's going to be my forth c section, I also debated on getting my tubes tied it's a difficult decision I know 4 is plenty but I will not be getting my tubes tied because I am young and my body is still healthy to have at least 1 more,best of luck on making your decision, base it on yourself not anyone else.

[rabeccarice]

My hubby is getting sniped. If I were haveing a csection I would definitely have it done

[brychelle]

How are you feeling about tying your tubes? Im jus curious because im 34 weeks this fri with baby number third boy and ive been thinking of having a tubal done only thibg that makes me second guess it is im only 25?? And my mom and bf are kinda being pushy about it i dont wanna feel forced into it