All alone

[bigmommaof3]

I know this is not a question but I have no one to talk to. I'm 11weeks with my 3rd our 2nd(we have a 7yr old daughter & I have a 10 yr old son) we didn't have a perfect relationship but when I told him I was pregnant all Hell broke lose. He broke up with me. Just to let u know we still live together(he has no where to go). Every time we talk its an argument he just told me that he has no connection with this child, that I should get an abortion but if I do decide to keep this baby I'm goin to go through everything by myself he doesn't even want to be in the delivery room with me, and the only thing I can get frm him is child support. I just don't understand what's going on I cry myself to sleep every night I know I have to stay strong because I have to work and take care of my family( I'm the beard winner) but its SO HARD should I just give him what he wants or be a single parent raising 3 kids.... I don't want this child growing up knowing its dad didn't want them.... Of and by the way he is a very good dad to our daughter

[luckymommy13]

* you can't base

[luckymommy13]

Don't give him what he wants just to try to satisfy him. What if he is still a *** afterward!!? you can't badge a big decision like that based on what others want. That is your baby and body and you will have to live with that for the rest of your life. Your child love will over power his all the time. You will see. That instinct starts when you're pregnant. Good luck

[robsangel13]

Throw that loser out

[k582]

I agree with the ladies above. You need to stay positive and him being so negative and living with you can not be healthy. Tell him he has to go. Being a single mom isn't easy but niether is staying in an unhealthy relationship. As long as baby has your love he/she will be just fine. Stay strong and try your hardest not to let him bring you down. Focus on all you do have. Children are always a blessing.

[BarbieAnn85]

throw his @$$ out u don't need that stress

[MommyPaws]

and you need to kick him out, it doesn't matter that he has no place to go, its not your concern.. hes parents house, or friends house, or rent something.. but he can't stay there.. kick him out!

[MommyPaws]

it doesn't matter if the daddy will not want the baby, its important that YOU do.... you don't need him, what you need is a man, who takes responsobility and cares for the family, and is excited to have a third child..he is not a man..maybe its good if yous brake up, give yourself a chance to meet someone else, who will love you..

[shastas84]

I was a single mom of 3. If I can do it, anyone can I promise. ;) It really can be a rewarding amazing experience. Yes you're carrying the bulk of the stress. But you're also getting all of those amazing moments that come with parenting. I agree with the last post. I hope your not currently supporting your ex. (I made that mistake during my divorce) If all he is going to supply is child support, then let him pay it. You can do this.

[MamaKayLove]

I dont understand why he feels that way about this child. He needs to step up and I hope you arent supporting him. I kind of have a similar situation and things will get better once you start taking steps in the right direction, ones that will eliminate stress. Keep your head up, do whats best for the kiddos.