All alone

[bigmommaof3]

I know this is not a question but I have no one to talk to. I'm 11weeks with my 3rd our 2nd(we have a 7yr old daughter & I have a 10 yr old son) we didn't have a perfect relationship but when I told him I was pregnant all Hell broke lose. He broke up with me. Just to let u know we still live together(he has no where to go). Every time we talk its an argument he just told me that he has no connection with this child, that I should get an abortion but if I do decide to keep this baby I'm goin to go through everything by myself he doesn't even want to be in the delivery room with me, and the only thing I can get frm him is child support. I just don't understand what's going on I cry myself to sleep every night I know I have to stay strong because I have to work and take care of my family( I'm the beard winner) but its SO HARD should I just give him what he wants or be a single parent raising 3 kids.... I don't want this child growing up knowing its dad didn't want them.... Of and by the way he is a very good dad to our daughter

[a23mckee]

I agree he doesn't want you or the baby so kick him out asap. Teach him you won't baby him. Who cares if he's a good dad. My oldest never met her real dad till recently and her response was I like my step dad better. You can do it alone I had 2 with baby 3 on the way and the fact that I loved my babies and worked my rush off is what attracted my hubby. Besides my grandma raised 5 kids without a man and no state assistance. Woman have been doing it for years. Don't forget who you are. Find your strength and remember at one time in your life you didn't need him and nothing has changed today.

[AnnieBrooke]

At least you won't have his mouth to feed along with the others, if you are the bread winner anyway.  Please don't be so afraid of being without a romantic partner (I am using the term very loosely in this situation with the way he is behaving) that you roll over and give in because you don't want him to leave.  Some guys are NOT the prize, they are the booby prize.  Even in a good relationship sometimes, I have sometimes wished I didn't have to take care of my grown-up baby along with my actual baby.  You might find that when his dead weight is out of the boat, it floats a lot better.

[LoveLife6]

You can do alone if you have to. But who knows, maybe he will come around & his feelings will change. As long as you are there for your baby, that will be enough. Try not to stress over him too much, focus on that beautiful baby that needs you!

[LoveLife6]

You can do alone if you have to. But who knows, maybe he will come around & his feelings will change. As long as you are there for your baby, that will be enough. Try not to stress over him too much, focus on that beautiful baby that needs you!

[julz1007]

Kick his *** out who cares if he has no where to go I'm a single parent of three expecting # 4 it will b hard at.times but well worth it when u look at ur babies

[4thonecoming]

If it was me, I'd kick him out. you can do it on your own, your stronger then you think