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5069617 tn?1366659785

ugh emotional..

Ok so I don't like with my baby's father but we live extremely close he's like 15 minutes from my house and I only see him on the weekends and usually we have a very active sex life in 25+4 and he was down and I was trying to be romantic and cute and such and he just looks at me and goes "no stop it"... he left 15 minutes later but I felt like crying and I've never felt like that before.I just felt like he had rejected me for some reason. Its just me being over emotional with the pregnancy hormones right? Lol I know I probably sound silly but this is my first pregnancy. Did any of you ladies feel like that every time ur guy did something like that even if it was for a ligit reason?
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Definitely the hormones, it's hard to stay centered and calm during pregnancy and you guys are still so young. I had my 1st child when I was 19yrs old and it was extremely difficult for me not to mention I was going thru A LOT in my life. My son is now 13yrs old and I'm 33yrs old so time&experience has made me able to keep calm even thru so much stress but there are times pregnancy hormones take over so it's normal just remember that sometimes you have to take a breath and remember what's really important  :)
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Yea this is mine and my boyfriends first child and has 19 and I'm 17 so he does get weirded out but not until then that's why it upset me he felt bad later cuz he went home and I just went to my room and cried and during that he called and heard me crying and apologized although I'm absolutely sure he still doesn't know what he did that made me cry and its just he little things... like he's never missed an appt before and he ended up not going to one and told me he wouldn't be there over a text and I started crying in my doctors office
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Another thing to remember is that men get weirded out about certain things when we are pregnant, especially if it's their first kid or first time really dealing with a pregnant woman. Especially when it comes to sexual things. Like certain things that hubby&I do sexually he hasn't wanted to do because i'm pregnant like he's afraid it's going to hurt the baby even though this is our 2nd child. I don't let it bother me although sometimes I do get a little sensitive :)
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I'm going through a lot of that lately. Just any little thing hurts my feelings and I start crying like a baby. I've been feeling very distant from my boyfriend. I don't feel pretty any more and I feel like I have to beg for any affection. I hate it. But I cry all the time it seems over almost anything
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5069617 tn?1366659785
Ik and I'm only 25+4 Dx
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Yeah I've been through this plenty of times! I'm on my third baby and I'm 17 weeks today anyways 2 days ago my husband was sleeping but he had been complaining of a bad headache that morning so so i went up after he had fallen asleep to give him some medicine and he was like "what? No leave me alone" he didn't say it mean at all but i just kept saying sorry and started bawling my eyes out and couldn't stop! He felt terrible about it cuz he really didn't mean to be mean but it just crushed me! It is just your hormones and honestly it's just gonna get worse with my sons pregnancy i cried all day every day bcuz i felt like myhusband who was just my bf at the time didn't want a baby even though he had never said that and i felt like he was only with me cuz i was having his baby cuz he's such a good guy anyways after i had my son everything changed for the better he is an amazingfather and now we are married! It won't last forever and when it's finally over your gonna laugh at all the silly things you cried about now! Good luck!
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Live**
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