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Feeling Alone

I'm a FTM at 39 wks+1 and I have that feeling that nobody cares.... I have a good support system(my mom), but my friends, my child's father seem to not care. Is anyone else having the feeling of going into labor alone?
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Your not alone I felt like that during my first pregnancy the only one there for me was my sister n law,  my child's father didn't come thru until after seeing his baby, some come around some dont. Good luck and hang in there there come around
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I feel that way.  I mean I have my husband, but it's not the same as having gf there with u.  I hardly have any friends where I live now cuz I moved to a new state almost 4 yrs ago so all my friends r back home.  Luckily I have a friend who I asked if she'll be there for me for delivery and she would.  But I had to ask.  Idk, sometimes I feel like all I really need is my husband and other times I feel like I'd also like a gf there.  My mom is coming to visit so I feel good about that.  I didn't have a baby shower cuz I don't feel good about asking ppl I'm not really friend's with or relying on coworkers for gifts.  Oh well, I don't have time to dwell anymore, but I know how u feel.  I'm 39+1 and hope to have my baby this week..  hope u feel better by the time baby comes, they really r a bundle of joy..  
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