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Why am I so mean?

I have always considered myself a nice person. Since I have become pregnant, my nice filter is gone. I say what I think, and I can't stop! Is this normal?
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I dont feel bad considering if I speak up I feel its needed. Its kinda nice for me I feel like I've found more so of my own voice. Im usually quiet and reserved but since being pregnant and speaking my mind for once in my life its a freeing feeling. Plus guess what people get used to it or blame it on me being pregnant.  Lol
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Lol!  Don't feel bad,  it's very common.  We have some crazy hormones coursing through our bodies
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5787844 tn?1376078984
Its normal. Very normal. Hormones definitely alter how you think! When having a moody moment it might be ok to say something you'd never say if you weren't.

Theres a reason why pregnant women can plead temporary insanity! Lol

This is my third. But with my second .... my husband ate my last pop tarts and I cried lol.I aaccused him of not caring about me and everything. It was all very serious at the time lol HOOOWWW could he eat my special pop tarts!? The poptarts me AND his unborn son would eat! Later on I was so embarrassed. It made no sense later.
I equate it to being under the influence. Everything makes sense then. Looking back...it was dumb hahaha

Moooost people will cut you some slack. I've come to find anyway lol

Don't feel bad. Looking back later you will laugh!
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I am being the same way. I realize I doing but it's out of my mouth before I can check myself..lol. I just been pre warning ppl that my filter is not working properly and they seem to understand more then. but if I say something really mean I apologize and blame it on having a boy. I don't know if its normal but my OB did say she sees it a lot with pregnancy. she just laugh when I told her and she said she going to have watch her p's and q's around me.
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13167 tn?1327194124
Yes you can stop it,  you just don't want to.   ;D

I don't know that it's "normal",  but it's common for women to get really moody and rude when they're pregnant.  You know you're doing it when you're doing it,  just stop.  

It's hard.

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