advice? 8 months and found out ive been being cheated on

[lisarye]

Hi everyone I know this is a place to talk about pregnancy, but I just turned 32 weeks today and yesterday I found out my boyfriend was cheating, not sure about physically but he was talking to other girls. I'm going to be 21 and he just turned 19. I've been depressed and thinking about my daughter feeling the pain I feel makes me more depressed. Does anyone have advice as to what I should do? I would really appreciate it thanks to whoever read this.

[lisarye]

Thank you everyone

[Jennymetalheart]

Good luck! I'm sure it will be a tuff road!

[Resa09]

so sorry this happen to you its sad that as women we have to go through so much. You going through alot without the cheating its so many emotions im assuming your feeling . Put just continue to pray and i wouldnt take him right back either your carrying his child he should have more respect . BUT i will say this if u guys can come to some kind of common ground thats ok too. But dont stress if making him go is less stress keep it that way if its the other way around try to work it out wishing u the best with your pregnacy and relationship God Bless

[lisarye]

He was sending them pictures of his penis and having intimate conversations with them. They didn't know he had a girlfriend or a baby on the way.

[briannelove]

He was talking to other girls? Why do you think thats cheating?

[lisarye]

Yup you're very right. And he does treat me good but he hasn't been in a lot of relationships so maybe he doesn't really know how to treat me. But everyone knows not to cheat. I think time apart would make him value me more but once im over you I'm over you babydaddy or not. Well see how bad he wants his family.

[Jennymetalheart]

Out* not or

[Jennymetalheart]

There isn't ever! If you choose to work it or with him, he HAS to work HARD to gain your trust and show you he has changed! maybe he isn't ready for such a huge life change with having a baby at only 19. Men mature much slower then most women unfortunately.

[lisarye]

Thank you Jenny, I did kick him out I cant be around him I get so angry. He told me why but it still wasn't a valid excuse.

[Jennymetalheart]

If it were me, I would ask him how far it had gotten and why? I would then probably stay at my parents house for a few days or a close friend. I would need time to think things over and reevaluate our relationship.
I'm sorry this is happening to you! I hope everything works out!!

[lisarye]

Hey susi thanks for replying, yeah we had a talk yesterday for a couple hours I actually kicked him out and he's staying with one of our friends and he's trying to get me back and willing to do whatever he has to to be with me but I can tell he isn't truly ready for commitment. I just keep praying. I don't plan on taking him back for a long time, should I try to make it work? Does a guy that cheats on you pregnant truly love you?