Hello ladies, I'm 18 weeks 5 days along and I had two days of contractions. Went to the ER and they put me on bedrest for a week. No lifting, exercising or sex. To try and let them ease up. I also have a 15 month old baby girl. My question is, how do I balance my need to care for my daughter and rest enough for the baby boy that I'm currently baking? I have to pick her up to change her diapers get her dressed and to feed her. But that doesn't allow for much rest. I also have to play with her. That's a given. My husband finally has work, and we can't have him take time off. Simply can't afford that. Any tops would be appreciated. Anyone else in my shoes?