Just need to vent!

[Brat521797]

I'm 32 and pregnant with my 2nd child the 1st is from a previous relationship. The baby I'm pregnant with is with a 27 year old man and he lost his job, his car and apartment a short while after I've known him. I've only known him 4 months. I pretty much took care of him. He had gone back and forth about me getting an abortion.  We aren't together because he says I won't have an abortion so he can't trust me and I'm trying to ruin his life but if I did have an abortion we would still be together and try again further down the line to have a baby. Mind you he has 2 possibly 3 kids already. I tried to be understanding because I know he is in a very stressful time in his life but it hurts when he says these things to me. I really have feelings for him so it *****. I've even lost weight over being so stressed. I plan on just ignoring him and move on but it'd hard.

[LittleNorth]

I will say I'm sorry for his downfalls with work & things however, reread what you wrote and imagine that's your daughters baby's father. The first thing you'd tell her is "you don't need him" he has nothing to offer you or your baby, he already has 2, maybe 3 kids.. Does he even see these kids? He's obviously not responsible. Do not stress yourself and you baby out over a boy like that. Do what's right for you & baby. It's time he grows up & if he doesn't want to be with you bc you didn't want to kill your child so be it. I know it's hard your emotions are all over the place right now but think about you & your baby's future.. I say get out now while it's still "new"  

[Stef920]

You should never ever get an abortion just because a guy doesn't want to take responsibility for his actions. Sorry not sorry that he doesn't have his life together, that doesn't mean a baby should be disposed of because he can't keep his **** in his pants. Sorry for the harsh words but that boy (I refuse to call him a man) sounds like a complete loser.

[Cori2]

Well you hv only known him 4 months and he has nothing to offer you. Maybe it's best that you do move on.