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masterbating in first trimester

So last night i pleasured myself and i started spotting and now i have cramps too do you guys think i hurt something up there but i dont want to call my doctors im embarrassed my boyfriend and. I are in a long distance relationship so i q as so horny for the past couple of weeks.what should i do
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^^uhm nobodys knows who anybody is so yeah..
Even though i never spotted after sex i know some women who have.i dnt think its a great concern but if it progresses talk to you doc.
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You're ignorant. Masterbating is not creepy. My man is in the army and I looked up this search wondering the same as her. I have not masturbated because of things I've heard. I've been scared. If you really think Masterbating is creepy lol then you have some growing up to do. Yeah, there are weirdos...men who masturbate to porn. This is completely different. She has asked a question she is seriously worried about.
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#mfayb obviously I was not the only one that thought ur comment was rude. Wat r u contributing to the post? Nothing. So like I said b4, keep it moving
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Jump off? Really? I don't think there is a dignified way to respond to that lol
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Mfayb you should take a chill pill. Her question sounds nothing like a creeper. Just a question. I have seen worse in here. Jump off. Lol. They young lady just wanted help. Btw the bleeding or spotting is normal but still consult your ob love. Just to be safe. And good luck with your baby.  
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@jj again I won't apologize for trying to warn people. End of story.
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Who ever it's so concerned about sick ppl or don't want to respond to post just don't do it or why you are in this application!!
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@Rosie get over yourself.  I wasn't intending to be rude to anyone.I was trying to warn others of potential weirdos.  I definitely don't feel bad for that. As she stated she is not one. So taking someone at there word that's all there is to it. We are all hormonal. Calling someone rude is RUDE.
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If ur not gonna contribute and provide answers to a question bcuz u believe its a "creeper" then keep it movin and don't say anything. Leaving comments undermining someones concern is rude
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@loveyou4ever11 obviously no one knows anyone i was jus stating we dnt knw who she is cuz the creeper commemt after the post the other day bout males on here asking odd questions like this one unless u didn read that i dnt knw.
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There are actually creepers on here so if you want to take part in some sicko getting off go for it. I was just trying to throw the caution flag out there. You can't trust blindly.
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I wasnt negative in anyway i said u should ask ur dr nothing negative bout that.
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Thank u so much ladies minus the negative ones
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10011789 tn?1409704061
My doc said bleeding after sex and orgasm is okay as long as it's light and more of a brown color. She said bright red, or blood clots, or heavy bleeding requires a call to the doc or a visit to the ER
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10444971 tn?1411572350
I bled a little after intercourse when I was around 7-8 weeks.  Everything was fine
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If you don't have advice to give, keep scrolling. Are you guys the question police? She's not asking you to talk dirty to her....if it is spam they aren't benefiting from it? I don't see the problem , this is a legit question?
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I agree with above.. blood in Thr first trimester is usually old blood, when orgasm is involved and sometimes when its not your uterus contracting causes the expell of that old lining. As long as it doesn't last, its not bright red, and your not bawled over with cramps I wouldnt worry
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We dont know who u r an this is a question u should ask ur dr.
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Im not a creeper im 5w and 2d
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I wouldn't respond to this one yall. It sounds like one of the creepers.
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9764007 tn?1405807828
Oh yea an get a vibrator it's better... Atleast you won't have to worry about poking anything..
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9764007 tn?1405807828
Well even if you did call your doctor just say you had intercourse that's all.. And if your boyfriend ask just tell him truth or say you just started spotting..
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I was told at my 12 week appointment bleeding after intercourse, or I'm sure same goes for masterbating, is normal depending on the size of your cervix.  I bled a bit for the pap smear, which is why she warned me about possibly bleeding after sex.
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1827365 tn?1410506306
No reason why you would have hurt the baby. Orgasms give you contractions so probably it's just some blood retained from your last period
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