Need help calming down. ..

[RoniPooh]

I'm on the verge of going completely psycho....so I found out from more than one birdie that my significant other is out being a typical male...I am considered high risk and really trying to remain calm about everything and handling it a little more civilized.  I need help please keep me from going to jail.

[Sharita0427]

In this case the only thing you can do is PRAY about it. PRAY until you can pray anymore. No one can tell you how to calm down is this type if situation. I know I'd probably be on the next episode of snapped.... pregnant & all.

[Dakidd2512]

ask your friend for proof if they can provide it then leave him

[expectingaprince]

Forget it focus on your baby try talking to your baby sing the baby a song
n just thi nk abiut your liddo one  I always do that when im feeling sad mad whatever I just talk to my baby. I have a bear with his heart beat recorded so ill always have his heart to hear

[BeautifulMom01]

Take care of yourself and your baby, don't worry about him. You and your baby is way more important then  him. I'm 6 mmonths pregnant, this pregnancy wasn't planned,  the sorry *** I'm pregnant by put a hole in the condom, he meant to get me pregnant. When I contacted him 3 months after I stopped messing with him, he knew I was pregnant before I even told him. Of course he's the lazy type and don't want anything out of life, he's always looking for a hand out or a female to take care of his sorry ***. He already has 2 daughters that he ain't doin nothing for, this is his first son and he hasn't been in the picture my entire pregnancy. I actually was going to have an abortion but when I got to the clinic I found out I was to far long to get one. I look at it as God wants me to have this baby for a reason, my son is a blessing and I can't wait to meet my prince. I have been in relationships and has been married twice. I been trying to get pregnant for the last 13 years and no luck, I actually thought I couldn't get pregnant anymore, my son is 16 and I have a 15 year old daughter. Just my luck here comes a nobody and I get pregnant by this idiot. I have to do everything by myself besides with my family to help me, but I'm in nnoways stressing about his ***, its his lost he want be in his only sons life. So don't worRy or stress yourself everything will work out fine, God will bless you

[SunKist6]

Like that crazy lady on tv said "aint no body got time for that" you need to occupy yourself with your baby's well being and your overall well being as well. You and your baby are most important right now. I feel terrible that you are going through this, have an honest and sincere conversation with him. Express your concerns and make him see how he is missing such an amazing time of his life. Heres to hoping he comes around, men cope differently. Best of luck.

[keaij]

Dont pay him or those people any attention because sometimes people do make things up. Dont worry yourself too much I.know its easier said than dont but you need to remain calm than confront him in a calm way and see what he says you know some people like to make things worse than what they are

[keaij]

Dont pay him or those people any attention because sometimes people do make things up. Dont worry yourself too much I.know its easier said than dont but you need to remain calm than confront him in a calm way and see what he says you know some people like to make things worse than what they are

[susamor]

Distract yourself somehow... I go shop around... I used to be impulsive but that got me no where. Sleep on it and figure out whats the best way for u to handle this. Even cry a little if that helps release stress. Remember you are worth being loved and respected and hes an idiot if he doesnt see that and its his loss.

[starresky]

Just remember that it's not worth the health of your baby nor is he worth jail at all... It's hard I can honestly say but baby and you come first... If he's pushing you to that point than its time to say bye bye...

[bubblelicious1]

Please don't pay him no mind! Worry about the wellbeing of ur baby & you! If u have sex please use protection with him & talk with him after the babies here :)

[lala_mommy]

Goodness, that must be a hard one. I used to be very impulsive- so any little thing and I'd be nearly choking him (our first three years were really tough) but truly you have something very very precious that will arrive before you know it and believe me when I say it won't be worth your energy. He's not worth carrying a criminal record for, or even doing time. I can't say I know how you feel,  but I can tell you it's in your hands to just walk away now that you can. I hope this helps some,  best of luck to you and your pregnancy.  Take care .