Heartbroken :(

[Della12]

Had my first ultrasound today and it seems like I am not meant to have children I don't know why :(((( doctor said sac measured at 9weeks baby died at 7w1d . I knew I should have followed my instinct when I had brownish discharge and loss of symptoms, I still had some symptoms though.  This is the 2ND TIME this happened to me, back in 2010 I had a miscarriage at 7w4d . Why at the same time? ;( doctor says there must be something maybe genetic  wrong r something else. We will do tests in 4weeks for both of us. I have to go in Monday to clean out again ;((( I'm praying that ill one day get my chance to be a mommy. really thought this time I'll make it. But maybe it was not meant to be I don't know :(

[roxygemini]

:( I am so sorry. I know someone near and dear to me who has experienced two very awful pregnancy losses, but now has two very beautiful boys. Her pregnancies were always so scary after such turmoil, but she made it through and is experiencing motherhood. Please stay strong and keep the faith that it is possible. My heart goes out to you though. Hugs

[Della12]

Thanks Lucy so everything happens for a reason, prob to make us stronger for the next time. ;) xxxx

[lucy4413]

My good friends mother had 5 m/c  before she gave birth to two healthy full term daughters. And that was in 1980 and 1983 and technology has advanced greatly since then. Keep the faith!

[Della12]

Ok thanks . Well I'm having really bad period type cramps now and it feels heavy down there and my tummy feels not happy so maybe it's going to happen pretty soon...

[baby2014]

I don't know my doctor gave me 2 weeks after the diagnosis and I passed after a week I asked them why it took my body 6 weeks to realize the baby had died and they said sometimes your body tries to hang on. The doctor did tell me if I didn't pass it in their time frame they would have gave me the pill or the d&c.

[Della12]

Good luck to all the mommies (",) thanks for encouraging me and knowing that there's a place like this to talk to other women that knows what it feels like...

@ jessejaaye were you successful afterwards ? Di you have any children after you miscarriages ? I'll definitely look that up and talk I my doc about it. Thanks a lot xx

[Della12]

Thank you so much ladies this really helps a lot and I know it's not easy for you to bring back memories but it will always be a part of us. I guess this makes you stronger and probably gives me the opportunity to plan better and be more prepared, although I would have been, but can always do better . I'm not sure if I should go in Monday to do a scrape or just let it past naturally , he do mention that its too far along for everything to past naturally , so bit confused.  

[teabugsmommy]

Just like the rest of these ladies are saying...don't give up hope!! I had a MC than had my daughter who is now 8. I then had 4 miscarriages before I had my son who is now 2 1/2, and my youngest son is almost 3 months. It is very difficult but not impossible!!  Hang in there!!

[kiki_lu]

I had 2 misscaridges huni.  Bot at 9 weeks both were on the same day of tge year and now I am 8 days away from my due date dont give up hope xxx if you ever need to talk here is the right place lots of people have been through the same thing I am so sorry foryou xxx

[jessejaaye]

doctors are always quick to say genetic disorder, I was told that could have caused my 2 miscarriages needless to say the tests showed nothing  and it turns out I have an autoimmune disorder where the natural killer in the uterus attack the growing embryo preventing it from implanting properly my both miscarriages were around 7 weeks four days you should ask your doctor about tests for that also so sorry for your loss, all the best

[rotsi]

Im so sorry to hear this :/ just like everyone else..don't give up. My aunt went through 7 mc and stillborns..but didnt give up. Shes got 3 boys all grown with their own families. Your body can surprise you. Just dont give up. I wish you the best.

[Jessy102386]

Don't give up yet I had 3 mc before and now I'm 20 weeks and all my problem was is blood clotting and I gotta take a baby aspirin everyday and sjes growin good. I'll pray the problem is that easy of a find for you. Prayers to u with cyber hugs

[xbabyboyx2]

so sorry to hear this. dont give up on yourself. i have a 5yr old boy and had 2 mc's after him and now im 35weeks pregnant again. i thought the same after loosing the 2 i lost but dont give up hope ur time will come. another boy im having. a lot of ppl have said maybe i cant carry girls and thos two i lost could have been girls. dont know if thats true or not as i didnt get them tested. good luck to u hope u get the baby u want x

[Della12]

Thank you so much for your heartbreaking but yet encouraging stories ladies . I appreciate it so much and yes I must just stay positive. I'll run the tests and see where to from here xxx ;)

[tutewidobaby]

Don't be disheartened, two years ago I had a ruptured ectopic pregnancy and I had one of my fallopian tubes removed... I never thought I could get pregnant again but it happened. Keep your chin up hun. *hugs*

[baby2014]

Not inhuman it was supposed to be obgyn **

[baby2014]

If you can wait to let your body naturally miscarry. When they do a d&c it scrapes away the uterine wall and it can make it weaken. I also had 2 miscarriages one when I was 21 I was 7 weeks and the 2nd when I was 25 it was a missed miscarriage just like yours. The baby was 7 weeks but my uterus was 13 weeks. I found out on my birthday and passed the sac a week later on my husband's birthday. A year later I was pregnant again for the 3rd time I freaked out when I started spotting and went to a hospital the doctor there told me I was having another miscarriage something told me not to listen to him. He wanted to send me to have a d&c but I denied it I told him I would pass it naturally like I did the other 2. 2 weeks later I had an appointment with the obgyn and I went in the pregnancy test was still positive I wasn't spotting anymore and they drew blood to see what my hcg levels were at the hospital they were 8000 at the inhuman they were 64972. The inhuman told me not to worry that I was too early to tell at the hospital. I carried the pregnancy to 35 weeks and had a healthy little boy.

Just don't give up and continue your prenatal vitamins. Give your body and emotions time to heal. I feel some people's bodies it takes a couple of tries to understand what it's doing. It took mine 3 times now I'm on my 4th pregnancy and so far no problems. I will keep you in my prayers. Sorry for your losses bit they are being watched and your time is soon.

[babymom1108]

Don't give up yet. Give some faith. I had two miscarriages with them bring a year apart. I felt the same way. I felt like I would never have the chance to be able to carry another child. I have a 9 year old son. And then 2 miscarriages. And now almost 10 years after my son I am now 26 weeks pregnant. I know at the time it hurts and you want to think the worst. But have faith. It will happen for you. My prayers go out to you.

[MAYS3]

I wouldn't write your body off yet as someone that can't have kids. I know someone that had 3 miscarriages before she had her son. I would take you being pregnant as sign and a gift that you're able to carry a child. I would pray for guidance, understanding and patience and consider all the steps you are taken during that process as well to ensure the health of your body and growing baby.