angry at my sister

[reabailandlex]

My sister has put 2 and 2 together and guessed im pregnant she  now has gone on to ask my best friend and her partner if im pregnant therefore telling them and my dad and saying she would bet her life im pregnant she hasnt asked me direct me and my partner where trying to keep things quiet until 12 weeks as im only 7 weeks i now feel she has taken the excitement of us telling people and shesreally angered me feel so mad what should i do really need advice thank you

[reabailandlex]

Shes always been the attention seeker and makes everything about her im just really upset she has leaked my news and tried to take the excitement away i havent spoken to her and shes txt trying crawl round me she knows shes done wrong its just annoying as she always comes accross sweet and innocent when shes not...im just so angry thank you for all your advice xxx

[rosealie23]

Tell her you are not pregnant and stop asking people because they keep asking you.... say "what are you trying to say I am fat or something?" And she should get embarrassed and stop...

[miracle_mommy2014]

Yeah I would just lie and tell her your not pregnant. Then tell her to mind her own business and to stop saying stuff she has no idea about?

[Furby85]

Let me start by saying sisters can be little *******!!! I have 5 and we love eachother. Nobody is allowed to mess with any of us. We will always have each othera backs but goodness. We females (regardless of blood) can be heartless, vicious creatures! It takes all I have some days to keep the negative thoughs creeping in my head. This one said this, this one said that. What my point is, is that I'm almost 30 and it's taken me this long to figure out their opinions only matter if I want them to. People are going to talk. Learn to draw boundaries and distance yourself from anyone who brings drama and/ or negative to your life. She can't hurt you if you don't allow it. Just laugh it off and as much as you may want to wring her neck right now,just remember she hasnt been in your shoes. Its all fun and games to her right now but she has no idea what the future holds for her. She may come crawling to you one day in need. Just do your best to not react. She obviously is doing this for attention. Smile bc that is the best revenge!

[Huni_b]

why don't you turn the attention on her ... think of some interesting thing in her life to talk about ... I'm sure she wont like it either if you suddenly assume she's hiding something ... maybe she's pregnant?  maybe she's doing something yall shud know about? divert the attention away from yourself.
maybe next time she comes over you pretend to be drinking something alcoholic (fill juice into an empty 180ml wine bottle or offer her a cosmo and make yours without liquor).

or you just confide in her and tell her the truth and how her behaviour is spoiling your joy of telling others yourself. tell her how you feel about it and that you and your partner shud be the ones to spread the word together when you're ready, its not her business to do so.

[reabailandlex]

Yeah think im just going to keep quiet just so angry she would spoil things thank you

[RedRose28]

Just lie to her and tell her youre not pregnant and to stop assuming things. DOnt let her steal your glory!!!