Hormones have me sex crazy...husband a prude.

[2BMommyoftwo]

Ok ladies... I have been really sex crazed for two weeks already.. I do mean really into it like twice a day everyday. My hormones have heightened every touch and kiss to another level that I never experienced. But when my husband asks me to get on top I find myself bored. I am totally not into it. He does not care for the up and down motion when I am on top he likes the grinding motion which does absolutely nothing for me. Any suggestions? I prefer rough sex and in any position but always having a hard time with getting into it. I thought it would be better since everything else has heightened but I find it even more unbearable. Any suggestions will be nice. Thanks.

[2BMommyoftwo]

Yes..It went really well we did different positions no getting on top so I was in heaven. Lol

[AshleyNM]

Thank you. Its funny how things work out huh? How did last night go for you?

[2BMommyoftwo]

Aww congratulations. I met my husband at a stop light coming home from a club. He asked me for my number and called me everyday. He asked me to marry him nine months after dating and we have now been together 12 years. We got married 3 years after we met and bought a home 2 years after we married and found out we were having our fist baby the same month we closed on our home. She is Almost 5 years and now we are having our second. Congratulations to you and good luck. I wish you happiness and a healthy baby.

[AshleyNM]

We aren't married. We were really good friends for 10 years and out of the blue one day he told me he has been in love with me for like 7 years. At first I was like oh a bit awkward but I decided to give him a shot and here we are. In love, having a baby and looking for our first home.

[2BMommyoftwo]

Aww that is awesome. Same here with us. He's the only man I ever loved and he knew before I did he wanted to get married.

[AshleyNM]

Hes the only big guy I've ever dated but the only man I've ever fell in love with. Hes an amazing guy and I wouldn't change a thing about him.

[2BMommyoftwo]

Me too Ashley.. Me too I am actually 100 pounds heavier than you so glad we understand each other :)

[AshleyNM]

My boyfriend is a big guy as well. Probably just shy of 300, I'm 156 I know this feeling. But just like you I love every inch of my man.

[2BMommyoftwo]

Thanks Ashley I will try and play around for sure.

[2BMommyoftwo]

FYI... My hubby is a big man he is a few pounds shy of 400. Yes 400 and I am crazy about every inch pound and cm of him. So you can imagine how uncomfortable it is to get on top. I feel the pain in my legs from them being so far apart just seconds after I am riding.

[AshleyNM]

Maybe just start masturbating in front of him and see what he does. He may not be able to help himself. Also we bought a vibrating ring, couldn't really tell if it made much of a difference for me but I think it did for him. But definitely try the vibrator, it helps me out a lot. Good luck

[2BMommyoftwo]

I have asked him many times and he won't masterbate with me he looks at me like I am crazy

[2BMommyoftwo]

Oh yes us too we are always switching and I turn around on him as well. My husband likes a** over breast so I think he enjoys the view much better. I am just glad I am not the only one that doesn't care for it or has a hard time enjoying myself. We use toys too but I never thought of using one while in top of him to pleasure myself. I think I will be trying that tonight.. :)

[AshleyNM]

Being on top doesnt do a whole lot for me either. If I get on top I'll turn around with my back facing him. Feels better that way and gives him better access to play with my clit as well. We have used vibrators and sometimes I'll use one when I'm on top so it doesn't get boring but we usually dont stay in position for very long. We are quite active and like to switch things up a bit.

[Bethplas]

Deetlj1984 masturbate together men enjoy that also then your not so alone.  

[2BMommyoftwo]

I am the same I do anything and everything sexually. My husband works a lot too he has two jobs and I also work full-time. I wish my husband would cuddle he only cuddled when I was far along in pregnancy with our other child.

[DeeTLJ1984]

I wish I had those problems. I hardly get sex because we are so far along and he doesn't want to hurt me or the baby. Plus, it's very uncomfortable. It doesn't matter any way we do it, it's still uncomfortable. Would rather masturbate. He's works a lot to do his mind is always on making money. But I would do anything for him sexually... he doesn't ask for anything other than to cuddle and kiss me. I too wish I could throw his cell phones away and tie him to our bed and not let him go. I'm 36 + 4 days and so ready to pop! Good luck ladies!!! :-):-):-):-):-)

[2BMommyoftwo]

Lol believe me I want to tie him he's a very big man he don't let me.

[luxah]

I'd tie his hands behind his head lol. Or smack em and say no.

[2BMommyoftwo]

I tried many times to do it my way and he grabs my hips and moves me how he wants me.

[luxah]

My husband doesn't moan either. And neither do I, our walls are really thin and we're connected to another house. My mom said I'm not really having sex cus we don't make noise, but to me its more of a turn off. So he could feel that way or just not be into the noise making cus he isn't.  If you're on top though, grind or do what feels good to you so you don't get bored, that makes more sense to me then being bored.

[2BMommyoftwo]

He says men aren't supposed to moan and I completely disagree.

[2BMommyoftwo]

I have been with him 12 years he has always been this way from day 1. The other thing that is tremendously bothering me with this pregnancy is he never makes any noise.. No moaning or anything its always been this way. But I feel like what if he's bored??? I'm sure it is my hormones...

[2BMommyoftwo]

It did thank you. I do love spanking hair pulling all if it you name it I like it. I am very vocal with my husband but I feel like he thinks I'm a freak. As in super hyper sexual. He has always been mellow very mellow and I always tell him what I want but with this baby i feel a little frustrated. Thanks so much for all that I will see what I can get him to do to me ;)