Relationship question...

[kcarson_54]

My ex and I got back together after finding out that I got pregnant when we hooked up one night. I'm not sure if we should be together considering the only reason we got back together was because of the pregnancy. I'm 19 weeks and having crazy mood swings, going back and forth every day. I was thinking of moving out for the time being and figuring things out with time apart. After being off and on for 6 years things are just getting so stressful and I'm so confused. Has anyone else been through anything like this? I just don't have a lot of people to talk to and thought maybe an outside opinion would help.

[MsCali]

follow your heart . Be wise with your decision as well

[kcarson_54]

Thank you so much! I think we could have a good co-parenting relationship but I think if we stay together it could be detrimental to the children in the end. Sometimes you just need someone to confirm what you're thinking. Thank you ladies. God bless!

[mommyof3Ts]

Honey follow your intuition! My oldest 2 children's father and I had been on and off for almost 9yrs found out we were expecting our second thought I should really try harder, long story short it lasted 6 months after my son was born. In my situation the leopard never changed his stripes! Maybe you should focus on having a good relationship to co-parent, if the issues for the initial breakup are still present. Good-luck to you!

[Jere1011]

I was cheated on by a guy once but couldnt prove it until much later.  He wasnt even a good liar.  I told him that it made me uncomfortable for him to comtinue his "friendship" with this girl and it hurt me for him to see her.  I told him that if he continued, that would show me that he didnt care about hurting me and that wluld be the reason i broke it off.  Needless to say, i broke up with him.  If your guy isnt going to change or meet ur expectations, u should be alone.  The only thing worse than comming from a broken home is living in one.

[Pattyann215]

If your not sure and are having doubt's about the relationship I would take time off and see how you feel after awhile being apart. An unhealthy relationship with a baby coming is not good. Good luck hun I hope you choose the best decision for you and your baby