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Stress while Pregnant!!
So my hubby has two kids with his ex. I love his kids, they are my world and I treat them like my own. But this b!tch.. she's stressing me out!
We pay this woman $500 in child support. Every once and a while we miss the full amount by $100 or so. She flips her freaking wig. Like really?? We pay child support every month, whenever she asks for more money for the kids field trips - we give it to her (outside of child support), whenever she needs us to watch the kids - we watch them! My babies came to my house with no freaking underwear on and shorts in 40 degree weather and we gave her clothes from what we bought just so they didn't go without! You know why? Because the stupid b!tch forgot to do laundry!! WTF how do you let your children go to school cold because you didn't do laundry?!!??! But she says my man is a horrible father and not a real man! UGH! Then she complains that her worthless boyfriend cant get a job and shes supporting her household all on her own and its our fault that she's struggling. WHHHATT THE FF???? Her boyfriend watch Alex during the day because our baby boy got kicked out of school. When he got kicked out, we took him and took that responsbility so we could have more time to raise him better and they wouldn't have to worry about day care or anything like that. Well we don't have full custody so the stupid b!tch took him back when she got her panties all in a wad and said "Oh my boyfriend can watch him!" But its our fault?!?!?!? No her boyfriend is a hobo who got you pregnant (Oh yea we're freaking due in the same month!) and she tells us, "Oh you know your not the only one who is expecting a baby in the next few months, I need the full child support." Its not my fault you went and got yourself pregnant by Mr. I like To Sit On The Couch All Day! And then on top of that she's threatening taking him back to court and try to put him in jail. Like dude really he is NOT a dead beat dad! We may not always be able to pay the full amount but he does pay every single month! It is NOT our fault you have $500 car note and jobless boyfriend!
It upsets me because I know my hubby does the best he can and is an absolutely awesome father and partner. I know he doesn't care about her but his dad was a herion addict and he's very hard on himself about how good of a father he is. It just upsets me that she puts those thoughts in his head. I know he won't say anything to me but I see it in his eyes, like it stings him. I just wanna punch her in her throat. It's taking every bit of my control to hold back these crazy hormones. And I have to see her today to pick up my babies for visitation!! >:(
Ugh sorry so long... Rant over :P
We pay this woman $500 in child support. Every once and a while we miss the full amount by $100 or so. She flips her freaking wig. Like really?? We pay child support every month, whenever she asks for more money for the kids field trips - we give it to her (outside of child support), whenever she needs us to watch the kids - we watch them! My babies came to my house with no freaking underwear on and shorts in 40 degree weather and we gave her clothes from what we bought just so they didn't go without! You know why? Because the stupid b!tch forgot to do laundry!! WTF how do you let your children go to school cold because you didn't do laundry?!!??! But she says my man is a horrible father and not a real man! UGH! Then she complains that her worthless boyfriend cant get a job and shes supporting her household all on her own and its our fault that she's struggling. WHHHATT THE FF???? Her boyfriend watch Alex during the day because our baby boy got kicked out of school. When he got kicked out, we took him and took that responsbility so we could have more time to raise him better and they wouldn't have to worry about day care or anything like that. Well we don't have full custody so the stupid b!tch took him back when she got her panties all in a wad and said "Oh my boyfriend can watch him!" But its our fault?!?!?!? No her boyfriend is a hobo who got you pregnant (Oh yea we're freaking due in the same month!) and she tells us, "Oh you know your not the only one who is expecting a baby in the next few months, I need the full child support." Its not my fault you went and got yourself pregnant by Mr. I like To Sit On The Couch All Day! And then on top of that she's threatening taking him back to court and try to put him in jail. Like dude really he is NOT a dead beat dad! We may not always be able to pay the full amount but he does pay every single month! It is NOT our fault you have $500 car note and jobless boyfriend!
It upsets me because I know my hubby does the best he can and is an absolutely awesome father and partner. I know he doesn't care about her but his dad was a herion addict and he's very hard on himself about how good of a father he is. It just upsets me that she puts those thoughts in his head. I know he won't say anything to me but I see it in his eyes, like it stings him. I just wanna punch her in her throat. It's taking every bit of my control to hold back these crazy hormones. And I have to see her today to pick up my babies for visitation!! >:(
Ugh sorry so long... Rant over :P
My recomendation is to not give her money outside of child support and if you do so do it in money order so you have something to show the court save all the recipes from what you guys buy the kids that also helps a lot..
Its a sh!tty situation to be in. But I love my hubby and my kids. There is never a day that I regret having them in my life. It will all play out in the end. I just hate seeing my babies not being taken care of. This is my first pregnancy but I've been with these kids since they 12 months old! Its so hard not being able to mother them all the time. :(
Well kiea I apologize if I came off hostile. Although I'm just stating my opinion and I'm a blunt person. I'm just saying his ex wife my be saying horrible things about her too. So I'm sure people would agree that she's a terrible person. But that's not true. And again there is a forum for social pregnant people which is more for this topic. Personally I don't think you should post your drama online if you don't expect people to comment or disagree with your perspective. But no I don't think you brought it on yourselves but I do feel if you knew the situation ahead of time you had and heads up.
I know how you feel. I have family that I am close too in a very similair situation. It is so sad how our judical system fails our children in so many ways. This is why I am going to law school! If you haven't noticed I kinda like to argue Lol But I also realize there is some serious issues in our court system. I want to represent the lost and and unspoken children that slip between the cracks of our judicial system!
There is always one of you people on these forums. Not angry with you at all. LOL! If this is immature (rather than doing something stupid like starting a huge argument with her that would lead no where but me strangling her infront of her kids and god) then yea sure call me immature but gosh I though I just had a little bit of self control! Poor me! :P
Enjoy your pregnancy and yes PLLLEASE ignore my posts. I rather not have unnecessary stupidity on my posts.
Enjoy your pregnancy and yes PLLLEASE ignore my posts. I rather not have unnecessary stupidity on my posts.
We can't take her to court as well,first the money thing and second because we live in Arizona same like Texas.tbj1985 it really sounds like u are one of those baby mamas.
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