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Im starting to get stressed out bc I hv to move n im 35+4 ftm n im gettin induced in 3 wks n I work part-time on da weekends n my nana is about to pass just waiting on god to call her hm sorry im just blabbing on n on but I feel dis is too much on me rite now I hv ah gud support team but im just tryin to deal wit things on my own but im bout to break down!!!!
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Thanks ladies for tha advice ive bn goin up there to sit n talk wit her bc she doesn't really talk much but I still talk bc I kno she hears me n im tryin to just stay focused n stay positive for my lil man bc I kno he feels Wat I feel imma take it one day at ah tyme n continue to pray for guidance n strength
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I'm so sorry you have to deal with all this! And I bet the hormones don't help much either. I agree with Michelle, go spend as much time with your Nana as you can, try and get her to tell you stories from when she was younger, that way you have little things to remember. Ask about her first job, her first love, her favorite hobby, if she went to school and what that school was like, anything you can think of. She'll appreciate the attention and you'll learn some new things. Don't stress about the moving, michelles right about that too, you are too far along to carry anything big, so you should just supervise what goes where and keep an eye on things. You can also go get lunch for the movers that way you can have something to do, and they'll appreciate that too.  Just try and calm down, worrying won't help you anyways. When you're thinking about things, try to focus on one thing at a time so you don't overwhelm yourself.
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Oh, Im sorry to hear you are going thru so much. These are such hard things to face and worse when your are pg. My father was very ill while i was pg and passed away within 10 days of my twins being born, did not get to see them. Its too much for you to deal with on your own. I know it was for me. Try to take a deep breath and sit down to relax when you feel over whelmed, maybe sit and visit with your nana when you can. Talking to her may make you feel better. As for the move try not to stress that, its the easist part. You cant really carry much at this point so do some lite packing and supervise the rest. This should be an exciting and happy time for you and your baby, as hard as it is to feel excited at this point focus on the joy your little one will soon be bring you all. If you need to vent or talk Im allways here, feel free to message me.  
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