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i hate to feel like this...

I try and stay happy most of the times. But i cant anymore.. i have tremendous back pain and i cant sleep.. i m having suicidal thoughts.. i hate to feel this way and im trying really hard to not have bad thoughts.. but lm just losing my state of mind.. im 28 weeks and i have been having abdomen pain on and off.. and im just tired of pains everyqhere in my body.. i want to feel better.. i need help..
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Will do talk to my doc.. as of now.. im practicing breathing.. i did yoga throughtout my 1st pregnancy i know it helps.. i was alone that time throughout the day but i was cheerful.. this time i have ppl around me but still i feel low.. im on bed rest for abdominal pain.. may be thats wat is making me so fussy..
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6333619 tn?1386598382
Yes! Tell your doctor. It is common to feel sad feelings but it is also important to keep your doctor informed especially if you are having suicidal thoughts. Depression is not an easy thing to deal with, trying to do things to make yourself happy when you are feeling depressed just doesn't work bc you don't have the will power to do anything so it's not so easy to take some of the advice from others. But you seriously need to talk to your doctor ASAP.
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Try exercising! Pilates/yoga are amazing and I'm having another easy pregnancy thanks to doing it 4x's a week. It is the most underestimated "medicine". Also, the suicidal thoughts sound like a postpartum depression and I've heard of it happening before baby is born. I'd see a dr about that. But do exercise as well because the endorphins will help tremendously with your depression too and naturally!!
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Aww, I'm sorry you feel this way. It's not easy and it's annoying when people tell me they never felt better then when they were pregnant. I don't have friends either really and it gets lonely. You're not alone. I like the advice someone gave, go get a pregnancy massage or something. Pamper yourself a bit. If it gives a little relief it's worth the money! Good luck!!
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You might want to tell your doctor if their really bad. Maybe they can prescribe you something or maybe theirs an infection. I thought I had abdominal pain but it ended up to be kidney stones"/ good luck oh and try an ice pack! ! Cold always helps my pain not heat
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I hate injections.. but at this point i qud happily take them if they cud make me better.. my abdomen cramps are hell.. i just cant bear them..
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7607165 tn?1395780125
And kno im always alone I hv no friends and hubby always working I do everything alone but I smile because I hv a blessing and this is temporary hun I kno labor day comes im taking a Shot lol
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Take some tylenol that's 365mg. I hope it works. And I hope u try to feel better♥
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7607165 tn?1395780125
No think positive get a massage or pedicure or facial pamper urself is the key pregnancy yoga im 29 weeks im feeling same things infact I was in hospital Tuesday and going back today again cmon snap out of it it could be worst hun get dressed go to baby stores or eat something really good I hop breakfast is good we are close look how far we hv come! !!! I hope u smile and feel blessed but kno ur not alone ;) gd luck
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