accept or dont

[Baby__80315__]

Cant seem to accept my pregnancy??
Is it cause I wasnt ready for another baby yet ????

[Baby__80315__]

Thank you ladies for your inputs im feeling a little better now. ..I have 4 kids already in this pregnancy was a big surprise for us
Ill keep you all updated

[Chima7]

Multiple kids can be such a huge burden. Very stressful. And so expensive too. I sympathize with all of you who feel this way. This is just a thought but you could always look into adoption. If you don't want this baby I'm sure there is a very long waiting list of folks who are desperate for one. You could make their dreams come true and it would take the burden off your hands. It's just a thought but it's an available option if you really don't want to deal with another one. And especially nowadays that everything is so much more expensive than it used to be, and life in general is far more stressful with all the horrible things going on around the world, it's completely understandable why you'd be feeling this way.

[Shanz04]

I feel the same way. We were in no way trying for or ready for a baby. I feel very scared and unprepared. I am 29 weeks now and still am having issues wrapping my head around everything. I have barely bought anything for this baby girl.  I am hoping now that the crib and dresser are set up and we have her bedding and my shower is next weekend that everything will start to get real and more exciting too.  And i know once this little girl is actually here I will be so happy

[mamichalke]

I am having a hard time with this pregnancy as well. We were done having kids and had my husband scheduled for his vasectomy.  Then we found out that we are pregnant.  I am 22 weeks and still have days were i am like o no. But i keep telling myself that it will be different when the baby is put in my arms.

[hol1127]

Same here. Had a huge uh-oh. My son was 3months old when we found out about baby #3. I'm still having a hard time accepting it..I'm 28weeks, due date is 4days before my sons 1st bday so it's really hard for me. I do enjoy buying little things here and there, but I still keep thinking I'm going to wake up from a really bad dream. Hoping I don't have a hard time bonding once he is born.

[narajo4]

Your not alone in feeling this way. It took me until a few weeks ago to really accept my pregnancy. I would look at baby stuff n hate everything, just now I am  29+5 and starting to purchase stuff. Some days I still wonder what am I doing, my diaper days were over (my kids r 15,10 &7). Hang in there momma, vent when u need too, even if you think others will respond negatively.

[misscan]

Babies are a bandol of joy,  a reason to live happy and to hope for a better future. I hope u learn to love u pregnancy as I do, it is a wonderful experience not matter how many kids u have already. ..

[misscan]

Babies are a bandol of joy,  a reason to live happy and to hope for a better future. I hope u learn to love u pregnancy as I do, it is a wonderful experience not matter how many kids u have already. ..

[due22jan15]

Its ok hon I was like that aswell but it does get better just think happy thoughts about this and youll feel much better I was bad I hated getting sick and I didnt want to be pregnant again didnt want to go throught it again still dont in a way im 38 weeks and 3 days it will get better. when I was harf way on my 2nd trimester it became easier I have 3 kids already and yes it can get sad and hard but hang in there