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another pregnant woman at my baby shower

So my baby shower is this coming weekend and my husband has invited this woman he went to high school with who is 8 months pregnant and due a couple of weeks beforquestion claiming that he invited everyone he knew so we can get more gifts. This woman is married but at one point before my husband and I were together asked her husband to allow her to have sex with my husband who was single at the time. My husband said he would never do it because he was also friends with her husband. Her and I have had several run ins where Im at a point now where I will be a complete B*tch if she rubs me  the wrong way. My question is what pregnant woman in her third trimester would go to another woman's baby shower? She already accepted the invite but I don't want her to come.
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I wouldn't want her there either,  whether she's pregnant or not. Too much inappropriate history. You shouldn't have to deal with anyone who makes you uncomfortable!
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Yeah there's no reason dor her to be at your baby shower especially if you dont the b*t*h icwould message or call her a** ahead of time and tell her not to show her face
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Also is not just a day to get as many gifts as possible,  it's a day where the people close to you see you pregnant and support and love you.  Tell him that.
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I wad pregnant at my friends baby shower? WHY WOULDN'T A PREGNANT WOMAN GO TO ANOTHER WOMAN'S BABY SHOWER????

She may not be a home wrecker. Or partners have mostly had sexual relations before is just like we have.  It's nothing to worry about unless she is pursuing your husband now. Idk what to tell you.  Maybe try and see if you may like her. But I'm a pretty laid back easy going kind of person so that may not work for everyone.

Maybe just get through the day and ignore her and don't let your husband send invites to your baby shower lol.
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I personally don't see a problem with pregnant woman being at a babyshower or just going out for a little fun. What I wouldn't allow is a woman my husband use to talk to, dated, kissed, touched in any sexual way. That's just a no no. My husband woukd know better. I will tell that woman to turn the f*c around and get the stepping out of my babyshower. . Point blank... and ohhhhh my husband will hear it after! !!!
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He uninvited her, and said that him doing so ended their 18yr friendship.  Furthermore, he told me today that she has been wanting to sleep with him and have tried numerous times over the years before and after she became married but he didnt want to go there with her. he doesn't seem resentful about cutting her off so no more drama thank God.
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