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No Sex....hmmm

So my hubby does not want to touch me..is anyone else in the same boat...it's like I'm going to break if he does????
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7406493 tn?1453999212
My husband is like that most of the time it's very annoying. But with my hormones being how they are I pretty much make him understand why being intimate is a must! We were both scared but after several attempts we both learned it is OK.I would suggest just trying instead of asking him or waiting on him to make a move.make a nice dinner and weather 2am or 9pm take the lead  and get what you want
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7510877 tn?1393183298
My fiancé hasn't been having with me lately either and it bothers me and now the fact that his obsessive ex gf is pregnant and saying the baby is his is killing me, maybe that's why he hasn't been on top of me as much as he used to :'( . Idk I'm just falling apart.
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I'm only 9 weeks but I don't want anything to do with sex since I got pregnant.  I don't want to be touched but he can't keep his hands off and takes it personal that I'm just not interested  :/
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BTW I'm 33 weeks today. Ugh... A little frustrated.
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My husband has an issue as well. I keep trying to get him to touch my belly or rub me around my belly to feel the baby. He just isn't interested. He says to leave the baby alone and he doesn't want to agitate or annoy him. Lol I think he has issues himself. As far as sex... He doesn't want to do that either. He says its because his recently operated on knee (Dec 30th) is still bothering him. He says we're both like 2  uncomfortable and awkward cripples trying to get iton. So iI tell him last night. " you better get it in now because its 6weeks after he's born". So he tells me he can wait.... Are you kidding me?? Well I can't.  I feel your pain... I don't think I'll ever understand.
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I'm currently 27 weeks and a few weeks ago he got distant which bothered me because throughout out entire 8+ years we've always been extremely sexual. I confronted him & he said he was afriad to hurt me since I've gotten my belly I told him if I'm uncomfortable in any way I'll let him know. Glad to say we are back to our regular nympho tendencies lol
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Ooh I wish! Im 5months and 2 weeks and sense the beginning my fiance' seems to want nothing but that, to me its not always such a bad thing cause it makes me feel more comfortable with my weight gain and my body but it also gets super annoying when i dont want to be touched. But if you are the type that has trouble with how your changing and how the baby belly affects things then the simple thing to do would be to just sit and talk together. Maybe hes scared it will hurt you or the pregnancy!? Many men are like that.
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