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my fiance and I have known each other for 11 years, we' ve been together for a little over a year. I have a son from another relationship and his father is not involved in his life. I'm 34 weeks pregnant and now he's saying how suffocated he feels. he goes out every night, plays games online with his friends all the time...especially when he's supposed to be spending quality time with my son. if he feels suffocated now, how is he going to feel when our daughter is born..? I don't know what to do.
Kids not lids lol
Wow seems like he is showing is true colors. He new you had a child before y'all got together so he knew what he was getting into. That is not right for him to throw it In your face that he had to change a lot for y'all. If he truly loved you and your son he would not be acting like that. Sounds like he needs to grow up or you just have to move on as hard as that maybe. Some men just don't get it or do but it's to late. I wish the best for you and that he snaps out of this and steps up and acts like the father those lids need.
WOW! Ur pregnant u have every right to cry but the way he treats u, ur son, and unborn little girl is rediculose! All i have to say is good luck!
it's not that he blows me off when Ibringing stuff up to him, it's he blows up...saying how he had to change everything for my son and I and just making me feel more like crap..he even gets mad if I cry in front of him..
Wow another one....seriously? What the hell is up with men these days. Grow some balls!
You need to tell him this is not okay.
Tell him how this makes you feel.
Relationships these days seem to be all about the man's needs....what about yours.
If he blows you off and doesn't care. Leave. He doesn't give a **** about you or this new child.
If he listens and tries to solve the problem, he's a keeper.
you need to come up with ground rules. Tell him he can have a boys night. Like once a week, fortnight, month. Whatever suits you guys. But every night is ridiculous. If he doesn't want to spend time with you now...imagine in 5 or 10 years?
You need to tell him this is not okay.
Tell him how this makes you feel.
Relationships these days seem to be all about the man's needs....what about yours.
If he blows you off and doesn't care. Leave. He doesn't give a **** about you or this new child.
If he listens and tries to solve the problem, he's a keeper.
you need to come up with ground rules. Tell him he can have a boys night. Like once a week, fortnight, month. Whatever suits you guys. But every night is ridiculous. If he doesn't want to spend time with you now...imagine in 5 or 10 years?
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