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7559220 tn?1393617158

first time mommys!!

Ever since i have gotten pregnant I feel like i have no friends or no one to really talk to. Is there other first time mommies or moms out there that feel this way?
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6791550 tn?1392365553
Friends abandoned me 2...only have family & my bf & I can talk 2 them just like friends...& thats fine w me now but @ 1st I was just like u SAD...I did send text messages 2 all of them tho...letting them know my feelings were hurt...
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Im a ftm and im a bartender and pretty much the life of the party with my friends who all have no kids. I used to get my feelings hurt when I would see on facebook that they were out and having fun because my life has gotten alittle boring. But then I reliezed when u get older everyone is in a different place. And every time I feel my baby or get to see him in ultra sound it makes me way more happy then being the life of the party. You really figure out who your friends are..keep your head up..soon your baby will be everything u need and your never alone.
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I know how you feel. All my friends live far away. My husband is away at tech school right now, and all I have are my sisters and they don't relate at all.
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7058746 tn?1393435420
I'm a Ftm all I have is just have family.. but I'm ok with it.. my man is really my best friend
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I have several groups of friends, but I only have like two women friends that I remotely feel close to and comfortable talking baby things with. And one of them lives an hour away and I barely see her.
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7559220 tn?1393617158
I have friends that text me every now and then to see how im doing but no one that is really close. I wish i had a best friend
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I'm a first time mommie and I my friends nevee invite me any where anymore they jusr go n then tell me about it I only have one good friend that cones buy to hang out n checks on me n we still f2f o everything together yu might as well say were both pregnant cuz she is jus as excited as I am
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I'm a first time mommie and I my friends nevee invite me any where anymore they jusr go n then tell me about it I only have one good friend that cones buy to hang out n checks on me n we still f2f o everything together yu might as well say were both pregnant cuz she is jus as excited as I am
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7559220 tn?1393617158
Im the second of my high school friends that i kind of still talk to. Its just hard making new friends when pregnancy or kids are involved.
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6855498 tn?1396023284
I know how that feels i'm the first of my friends to get pregnant
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7559220 tn?1393617158
Its just hard not having anyone to talk to or hangout with....life gets boring :(
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Avatar universal
I went through that with my first child. I think it all depends on the friends you have and how mature they are. Cheer up!!!
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