stressed out

[BabyBush2015]

Lately I've been stressed out by my boyfriend he's no help what so ever he's stingy and all he cares about with his money is buying and smoking weed I've told him since 2 months ago to stack hold and fold money meaning save up so by the time we do find out what were having  we can go shopping for some of her things. Lord he's 31 I'm. 26 he's still one of those men who are still being babyed by his damn grandma I hate that **** he makes me so sick to my stomach I really don't even see no future with this dude he's careless and insensitive when it comes to my feelings although I may not be working but I feel like he should be the man and step up he won't even buy my prenatal pills I'm so hurt I feel like I have no one but my baby girl and I can't wait till she's here I love her so much o swear I do

[BabyBush2015]

Its hard and I'm trying

[BabyBush2015]

Its and I'm trying

[kaykrys]

I'm 26 as well and know exactly how you're feeling. I left the father of my unborn due to similar reasons. As hard as it was I'm much happier and completing the last few months of pregnancy without him, is easier than I imagined. Let go girl, because amazing things happen once you do

[kaykrys]

I'm 26 as well and know exactly how you're feeling. I left the father of my unborn due to similar reasons. As hard as it was I'm much happier and completing the last few months of pregnancy without him, is easier than I imagined. Let go girl, because amazing things happen once you do

[BabyBush2015]

Thanks ladies I'm just emotionally drained and tired of his crap something he don't brush his teeth his mouth don't have a oder but still its yellow and gray I can't stand it period he's so judgmental he likes to criticize others and not look at himself he's been with a girl for 8 yrs she had 3 babies on him and now that he finally has one he act dumb and shady he wants me to baby him he don't rub my feet etc nothing

[Shannir]

You need to make a future for baby and you. He is likely not to change. At 31 he should be paying rent and adult bills. He sounds like a free loader. Put a nest egg away. Talk to a community agency to see if there is help to get a place of your own.

[YaryMommy]

Yep that's how my ex was with weird tendencies. He didn't even know how to flip a tortilla in the stove. He hardly ever brushed his teeth and when he ate he had food smeared on his teeth, I was so embarrassed. I had to push him to take a shower and he would get mad at me. I'm not joking nor exaggerating. I felt like a mom to him more than a wife. In other words he was like dumb.. He wasn't raised right, he had issues, and had no manners. He couldn't even graduate collage. I think that he was thinking he had it made with me because I did get an education at a University. And I always felt he was using me, and in the end my suspicions were right. God opened by eyes big time. I look back and just say I don't know what I was thinking. That marriage was super dysfunctional. My family didn't like him at all. I'm so grateful to God that I gather strength to leave him. I'm so happy now in my life, no regrets leaving him. For reals those guys DONT CHANGE!!!!

[BabyBush2015]

Yary I 100% agree with you on so many levels we stay with his aunt he barely wants to help her out with bill I swear when a cable bill comes or light bill comes he always complaining about why its so high or why he gotta pay on the cable bill because he's not using the big box like simple petty **** he never had his own he always depends on woman or his grandma for **** and I'm the first woman to not baby him or pay him no mind when it comes to his needs although I have provided for him but for god sakes he's a grown *** man whos  petty with money and can't manage **** to save his dear life hes to ignorant and very childish I can't stand his ***** *** I'm to the point where I say I hate you and I really dont mean it I just want him to respect the fact that I don't wanna be botherd with his insecure dumb *** he got woman tendicies for real

[YaryMommy]

I'm sure you love your baby and your baby loves you too. Sorry for the trouble your going through I wish all women were treated like a princess.
That guy is no good. He doesn't deserve you. I hope God gives you direction and clarity so you can know what to do next.
Because I have a feeling you already know inside your heart what's best for you.. Be strong don't be afraid to leave him if that is what is better.
In my past I divorced the guy because he cheated on me, he had nothing to offer. We were living at moms house okay. He didn't even have a car, he was lazy and always yelling at me. And the cheating!, well no girl deserves that humiliation.
God bless!

[AAVs_mommy]

Move on for you and your baby. You can only hope he will come to his senses. Best of luck!

[AprilMay24]

I say if you see no future, stop putting stress on you and leave.