frustrated

[crstl11]

U know I can't stand when people take words out of context and make what u say sound horrible....I try never to do that to people so if I comment on anything ever or if I insult u by anything I say please just let me know cause I am more than happy to apologize. We are all on here for advice and it doesn't feel good when someone u don't know judges u or calls u names...or tells u u are a bad parent. Irritated.

[tattoomommy03]

Lol my hubby is the same way. It took me a good year to somewhat break him of that. Drove me crazy. I wouldn't concider my self a neat freak but I am very clean. Everything has its place and its not boxes or on the floor. No room for it then don't need it type deal. We live in a double wide mobil home for now til our house is finished being built. We have pleanty of room, but come on its a mobil home! Lol. I already layed the law down on our new house (due to be done in march). And he's ok so far. But she on the other hand I went by yesterday to check in and it was worse. 3 cats now and I'll leave the rest to you imagination. I left 2 min later. I love her to death. But she has to help herself before anyone else can sadly. You'd think a baby being takin would snap you out of the hording. But it made it worse.

[crstl11]

Omg I wondered if that stuff really happened. There is no way. I'm a clean freak it bothers me that my hubby is a Pac rat. And he bought a building to put his stuff in and it still bothers me. Oh yeah I don't spank my child unless good cause. I usually just tell her I will and she does what I say if not then I pop her hand or butt.

[tattoomommy03]

I do believe in spanking. For the right reason that is. Nothing wrong with a swat on the butt. And yea she did. Her hording was bad. Almost as bad as what you see on that show. Horing buried alive. She had a walk way from the front door to the bathroom and to the bed rooms. I helped her as much I could. But she had a mixture of trash (food waste and diapers) to new and old clothes. Couldn't tell what was clean or not. Dishes pilled high everywhere and a stove that was just caked on black burned food. Roaches flies, you name it mold in the fridge it was horrible. The courts gave her 30 days to clean it up and she didn't bother. It remains the same today and the baby is now in foster care. 11 month old in foster care because she's to lazy to clean he sh*t up. Its sad. But I'm the 'bad mom' because I put my kid on time out? Really? Wow lol

[crstl11]

That was messed up she said that. I don't know if u believe in spankings but my daughter probably would have got a hand popped for that. That lady got her kids taken away for hoarding and said something to u? Omg i would have probably flipped out.

[tattoomommy03]

Yes it is, but you gotta sit there and take it with a grain of salt. You know you're a good mama. I had a friend of mine tell me I'm a bad mom for putting my son on a time out at chucky cheese! He hit me and told me I was mean because I wanted him to eat first... I just looked at her and 'nicely' said, ' and you're telling me this when the court took your kids away due to hording?' That ended it pretty fast. The net is full of it. Gotta ignore it the best you can tho at times its hard. As my dance coach always told me 'smile and nod'...

[crstl11]

I woke up thinking about this today...that is messed up

[tattoomommy03]

Any time. :-D

[crstl11]

Thank u...

[tattoomommy03]

**BIG HUGS**

[crstl11]

I know this has nothing to do with pregancy and will probably be removed but had to apologize if I ever made anyone feel like a sorry person...sorry medhelp