cerclage =no sex=crazy

[Heycutie]

Anyone else here have a cerclage put in?? I'm a FTM..I've had my cerclage put in at 13wks..I'm now 19wks an I'm going crazy not being able to have sex ..ESPECIALLY knowing this will be this way till I give birth then another 6 weeks after birth...I'm overly horny (tmi.sorry) an I feel bad not being able to please my man with sex ..(were all grown so (head-oral) is not something I wanna do all the time) ..I'm really miss the sensual part of our relationship he's being understanding but I no he misses it too. . ANYONE ELSE BEEN THUR THIS???

[SoccerMom2009]

@ heycutie, do you know what caused your cervix to open up? Im very sorrt about your previous loss. I too have had 2 m/c but dont think it was due to this isusue. I ask because I'm very curious. I've never heard of this procedure until this post.  Sorry if I intrude. Plz msg me if you wish. Thanks in advance for your time. Btw: my pregnancy is at high risk as it is so I can't have ANY type of intercourse. Really *****! (get it?) Lol

[Heycutie]

It will definitely help with keeping baby in ...they may suggest the 17p(progesterone shots) shots also I get them to to be able to carry full term..but previous to having surgery we had sex very lightly an not pushing all the way in because doc already told after its a no go ..

[Heycutie]

My doctor said no sexual activities period in any hole ..nothing to cause an orgasam because having a orgasam can tighten an strain muscles an may cause u to bust stitch. .it *****..an if i could analysis still wouldn't be an option (ouch)..

[Sandysweets]

Sorry if not appropriate but is it that you can't have intercourse at all or just vaginal? Cause I know its not the same but can't u have anal , for sure it would please ur man and take the edge off.

[andrew715]

I just asked this question in another chat but this is my third pregnancy and I went into labor at 5 mths and 4 mths because my cervix complete open with no warning. With my recent pregnant I'm 6wks and I'll  get my cerclage out in at 13 weeks. I'm so scared but the success rate is 80-90% so I'm confident I'll be able to carry full term. My boyfriend and I stop having sex as soon as we found out I was pregnant don't want to take any chances but he's miserable and moody. Head can only so much lol

[angelasmith32114]

In my case my cervix started shortening at 22 weeks so the specialist and my doctor both said was needed

[Heycutie]

Im no doctor..but Usually ur doctor will suggest it if u had a previous miscarriage or if during a pregnancy ur cervix started to open an dilate ..I miscarried previously at 4 mths ..my doc said i had an incompetent cervix.. so this time I found out I was preggo at 2wks so my doctor said it was needed to be able to carry full term

[SoccerMom2009]

If I may also ask, how would you know you need one?

[Heycutie]

For women who have a weak cervix that may start to open way before they r due I miscarried before so my doctor suggested it

[Heycutie]

It's a surgical procedure when the stitch the cervix close ..

[warblingswan]

May i ask what that is? Cerclage?

[angelasmith32114]

Yeah its scary I must say I was very scared but I wanted it so bad

[Heycutie]

I told him maybe once I passed 6 months we can lightly try ..but I'm nervous n so is he ..yhe doctor stresses it at every appt :-(

[angelasmith32114]

I had my cerclage put in at 22 weeks. I wanted to have sex so bad I ended up doing it at 27 weeks. We were super careful and not rough. ..