Am I being unreasonable

[Franklinsmum]

Hi everyone. I have had a real surge of motherly hormones recently and been feeling the need to tidy up our home and start getting a nursery happening for my little guy. I am currently 26 weeks but feeling like the baby's dad doesn't want to help to the standard I need. Our home feels cluttered at the moment and we have 2 cockatiels which live inside a cage we have set up in the living area. I think they should be moved outside as they are not hygienic enough for a new born to be around. Our nursery to be is cluttered with junk and every time I try to do it myself I feel overwhelmed so I ask him to help and at best it's still a slightly organised mess. It makes me feel unprepared and whenever I tell him this he says it's just pregnancy hormones freaking me out. Am I being unreasonable? He is quite supportive otherwise, takes me to most my appointments and is there for a hug when I need it. He just doesn't like to clean.

[Franklinsmum]

Feels. Great to know I'm not alone or crazy with pregnancy hormones! How can we convince them? This home was also his bachelor pad prior to me moving in so perhaps that makes it harder for him. He says he feels like he doesn't have a say in his own home. Gahhhhh! It drives me crazy

[TayyB2706]

Uggh lazy men! That's all that is .. I feel so claustrophobic in my house and overwhelmed with the amount of furniture we have in our little apt along with the added baby stuff and I continuously ask my husband to help me move some things around to make room for baby and so that I can begin cleaning and he has yet to do so .. yet he claims he shares my same feelings of claustrophobia at the moment -_- #BULL