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how to deal with a breakup with babydaddy ; & 12 weeks pregnant ?
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452571 tn?1311156476
I'll pray for you. Stay positive
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During my first pregnancy I left my babys dad because things got really abusive. It was super hard because I wanted to have my family together. I cried about it for weeks and finally got some help thru a counselor. Eventually I felt stronger and empowered...I was able to find a job at 5 months and started prepping for my baby. It was not easy but trust me you will get thru it. Stay positive and focus on being mentally prepared for the task of motherhood coming. Good luck
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11133727 tn?1417112793
U guys might get back together if u want too. You have a family and a child that didnt ask to be here. You guys should try to be mature and work it out. Me and my childs father mustve broke up 2xs already lol. Stay strong. You will know what to do. 35wks now.
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I'm in a similar situation except we broke up before I found out I was pregnant (am currently 10 weeks). His new gf doesn't like me.
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12584065 tn?1436320514
Been through this before and ill tell u that dwelling on it and staying upset just builds resentment and anger. Try to surround urself with positive ppl and stay busy. Do things you love and get out of the house if possible. Things get easier with time i promise. Just dont stress urself out cuz ur lil one can feel it too when ur upset. Wishing u the best! :)
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A break up anytime is hard, however pregnant sounds way worse. Surround yourself with people that support you. Stay busy. DON'T keep asking yourself why or how.. DONT keep looking at old pictures or msgs or any remembrance. You are only torturing yourself and I assure you that won't change anything. If you find yourself too depressed or with self harming thoughts please call your local hospital and ask for help. I can assure you although it seems crazy now you will get over it and in due time the sun will Shine again. Hope you feel better soon!!
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