husband is crazy

[deannamarkkula]

Any suggestions...my last baby is ten mo. i just found out I'm about 7 weeks pregnant again. my husband found texts from n to n x he thinks were seriouse comments but my x k.ows I'm a joker n sarcastic. now my huby thinks i cheated n says the baby ain't his. tryin not to stress but rrrr?

[Momma_Chicken]

Do you remember why your ex became your ex?

[Amy1830]

I agree with everything the other girls said. There's no reason to be keeping in touch with ex's unless you have a child with them and in that case the conversation should only be about the child. I would freak the f out if I caught my fiancé texting and ex, regardless of what it said. It's just inappropriate and asking for trouble. I think once you explain what really happened, if your husband gets over it I would just stop the contact with the ex for good to avoid any more problems

[CountryMomToBe]

Why are you even still texting your ex? Your ex shouldn't even be in the picture especially bc you're married and have a baby on the way, not to mention another baby.  

Honestly, my husband would be pretty upset too (justifiably so) if I just started texting my ex boyfriends.  It's disrespectful and inappropriate for A married person to indulge in that kind of behavior.

I think you have a lot of explaining to do.  For example, start by telling your husband why you are texting another man in the first place? Are you unhappy in your current relationship? Are you nostalgic of a past when you thought you were happy? Does your ex remind you of a time when you didn't have responsibility? No kids? No husband? There's always a reason... And your husband deserves to know the truth either way.

Good luck! :)

[pooklet123]

I think it's disrespectful to keep a relationship with an ex like that.  It's nice to be civil with each other, but in My opinion, if you're in a relationship, ex's should remain nothing more than ex's.  So I think he's justified, even if you are "just joking around", it's extremely disrespectful.  

[bookworm4992]

Ur ex may know ur a joker but does ur hubby?  It seems to me these jokes were very inappropriate if he jumped to the conclusion of u cheating. To be honest if I found anything of the sort on my husbands phone I'd flip the **** out! n that's putting it nicely. Maybe u both need to calm down, n talk. Apologize for the comments reassure him of the love u have n he should apologize for jumping to those conclusions. This is jus a general opinion,  I don't know what u said to ur ex, only u know if his reaction is justified.

[babyblues2014]

Honestly I don't want to be mean but I would be mad to. Most men would be upset so just give him time and I hope everything works out for u two and u make up soon.